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2d •
Feeling down
Assalamu’alaikum Sisters, I am in need of an advice. I have been recently divorced about 2 months ago, and while I was initially doing well, lately I’ve found myself spiralling down- I kept hoping for his message, for a close and an apology, to the point where I kept dreaming of him. I questioned if I made the right decision- but I know that my decision was made after so many considerations, and while I was willing to put aside my feelings to fix my marriage, I felt that he made it clear that his feelings was more important than being there for me. He’s not entirely a bad person, I choose to tell myself that he is a good person, but maybe he’s not good as a husband for me. How did you sisters learn to overcome this phase of waiting for something that will never happen? Somehow deep down I always feel like we’re meant to find each other again, but I don’t know if I’m feeling this way because I’m trauma bonded, or because being with him was something I was familiar with. I would truly appreciate all the advices 💗🫶🏻 Xoxo, Jannah
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Wa alaikum salaam wr wb sis. I’m sorry to hear that you’re experiencing this pain. May Allah ease your test for you and elevate you through it. The only advice I have is Istikhara. Lots and lots of Istikhara. Including for decisions you already made. At the very least, it eases the divorce, and if not, it may facilitate reconciliation. Pray the istikhara and surrender your worry and the outcome to Allah swt (you’re not looking for dreams or ‘signs’). He knows everything, including the hearts of people, and He is Al Wadud, Al Wali. He will never steer you wrong if you turn to Him 💗 Allah knows best ❤️ we don’t take advantage of that nearly enough!
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Book Club is ON🎥
Come join us!! 1. 👉 Join the zoom link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88527368828?pwd=LS9ZFSoU86V2LYRpUank4OAit3paxK.1 2. 👉Sign up to cohost: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hcWw1rUlzwYX7CO4X-pvdcnEQGqkkT1TlYkdJcz6EPY/edit?usp=drivesdk 3. 👉Share your notes with other sisters: https://docs.google.com/document/d/16ZC2tTAJs_VH7bRAg11_Srjmr7paZOKGu95KOpn5nZo/edit?usp=drivesdk
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Sorry I’m not caught up on blood club details- when do we start with the new book?
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Mental Health and marriage readiness.
Assalamu Aleykum sisters! This might be a bit of a dump so brace yourselves. The more I dive into marriage topics, courses and videos, I realize there's much I need to fix before I am ready to marry. I see these amazing sisters doing so much work and growing Allahumma Bareek, but it's making me doubt myself. Chronic fatigue is the main culprit that causes me to struggle to even complete the simplest daily tasks. I am scared for my future as I have no idea what I want with my life (currently a student) and it's eating away at me. Does anyone relate, have any insights or a nice word to share? May Allah bless you all <3
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wa alaikum salaam sis! we are all works in progress. you are the only person you can decide if you've healed enough to enter a marriage. we also tend to attract/ be attracted to people at our level of subconscious healing/ maturity (both islamically and from a psychological perspective), so i would think of that inner work as setting the bar for the kind of partner you are seeking. 💗
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✨ The Right Man Will Be Clear
Not every man is serious. One sister said, “I stopped entertaining confusion.” The right man won’t leave you guessing, waiting, or overthinking. He’ll be intentional, respectful, and direct. Clarity is a form of respect. What does clarity look like to you? 🤍
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💯 no mind games for me, thank you. Yes and no are both respectable valid responses. ‘Maybe’ is not. To me, clarity requires each person having done their own inner work to be able to understand their own values, preferences, strengths and flaws. And having the courage to act in alignment. It’s carrying myself with respect and being transparent about the things that matter to me, and I expect no less from the other person. If they are still hiding behind culture or trauma etc, I’m not interested.
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It’s WINNER Wednesday🎉
Who’s in the Lead? @E H Who’s the Runner Up? @Sadia Riaz Congrats….! Sister @E H Please reach out to me in DM within 24 hrs from this post to claim the prizes How We Compete I don’t know anyone who doesn’t like a little friendly competition. Think about it like how the Sahaba raced one another to Jannah. You are racing one another for Ilm (knowledge) and improving yourselves to have a healthy and happy marriage,bithnillah. This is how it works…. - Participate in the community section as much as you can - Then… watch your name rise on the leader board. - Keep consistent with good nia and action and bam!! You will be in the running to win serious MERCH… - Signature T’Shirts, - Mugs, - Journals, - Planners and more!! May the sister with the best hustle and heart win, bithnillah!
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