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Oct '25 •
How To Use The Off-Market Dating System
Welcome to the men who took action and grabbed the Off-Market Dating System. You're in. (If you haven’t purchased the Off-Market Dating System, stop wasting time getting the same garbage dating results. Get the system that works → Buy the Off-Market Dating System Here) For those who are in: Buying the course was the first step. Getting results means executing the plan. Here are your 4 mission-critical actions: 1. BOOK YOUR 1-ON-1 IGNITION CALL This isn't a suggestion. This unlocks the AI bonuses and gives you a personalized battle plan from my expert coaches. It eliminates all guesswork from the Off-Market Process. Book the call HERE immediately if you have not already --> LINK TO BOOK IGNITION CALL 2. ATTEND THE MONTHLY GROUP CALL WITH ME. Got a question? Stuck on a problem? Bring it to the call. I'll answer it directly. This is your chance to get high-level strategy and overcome any roadblock, straight from me. Check the calendar here on Skool for the call times. 3. FINISH THE ENTIRE COURSE. The #1 thing separating guys who get insane results from those who don't? They finish the entire system. All of it. No skipping modules. No looking for shortcuts. Time and time again, the guys who become high-status men with dating abundance... Are the ones who COMMIT to the full course. Find the course here --> LINK TO THE OFF-MARKET DATING SYSTEM 4. USE THIS GROUP. IT'S YOUR NETWORK. You are not alone anymore. Post your questions. Connect with guys in your city. This is your brotherhood of high-status men. Leverage them for feedback, accountability, and real-world opportunities. The system works if you work the system. Let's go.
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40 years old, never been on a date, fantasizing about suicide
I am 40 years old, and a virgin. I discovered self-improvement and pickup at the age of 17, and studied diligently, and practiced it. I put 3000 cold approaches under my belt, before I even graduated college. And I continued after that - just stopped counting. I have put in the work. SOOOOO much fucking work. And gotten NOTHING from it. Not even a DATE. Not one woman being sexually interested in me for one split SECOND. EVER. I fantasize about suicide. Every day. All day. I don't want to be here anymore. I started fixing my instagram, but I can't post any photos with girls, because I don't know any girls. I DON'T KNOW ANY GIRLS. I AM 40 FUCKING YEARS OLD, AND I'VE NEVER HAD A FEMALE FRIEND. This is wrong. It's wrong and I want out. This life is pointless. It's evil. Being born was evil and wrong. Everything is wrong.
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New Year's Resolutions? Are you holding to them?
They say that if you're not keeping up with your NYR in February that you're more likely to keep it for the rest of the year. My strategy for NYR: 1. Start your resolutions ideally before winter sets in, i.e. October. 2. Pick as many resolutions as possible. 3. Weed down the ones you can't follow and settle one one or two. The ones I'm still following: - Stop dating Catholics - it's all the negatives of secular dating plus the negatives of Christian dating (they claim to be virgins "waiting for marriage") - No video games all year - not until I get my Master's Degree, or I have a girlfriend I need to ignore. - Intermittent fasting, eat between 12-8. - Grease the Groove - 5 pull-ups/chin-ups, 20 push-ups, and a miscellaneous exercise for every 25 minutes of studying. Are you still holding to your NYR?
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Christian Men are Being Shamed for Wanting Marriage. Why Date Christians?
I am loyal to a fault. So loyal that the religion that has been a net negative in my life (assuming that I would also be saved by Christ as a Protestant), Catholicism, I keep turning back to out of an obligation to find a wife to raise children in the faith, a faith that has constantly griefed me from high school onwards against finding a wife by making me a Nice Guy and demonizing PUAs in my 20s. Anyway, my NYR amongst others is to stop dating Catholic girls. I have had it said to my face, "Pat, you are obsessed with finding a wife." Ok? As opposed to being obsessed with sleeping with as many women as possible? It's all complete mate suppression. Are there any other Christian men in here with similar experiences? Also, are Christian women, who almost definitely had sex in high school, saying they "waiting until marriage" just shit-testing men? I might make that a separate post. https://marginsofeden.substack.com/p/the-mr-collins-complex?utm_source=post-banner&utm_medium=web&utm_campaign=posts-open-in-app&triedRedirect=true
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