Recently I was talking with a female friend of mine and she says she is I’m one of the girls. I keep running into this problem. I get cool with girls and then I’m one of girls. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
We start talking. We get to know each other to the point I can comment about her body goals (she’s a gym girl) and critique her life.
But then I become one of the girls. I think it’s a good sign of comfort (which is what I’m aiming for).
I’m concerned women I’m interested in will view me this way. I’ve watched the podcast and Micheal holds to himself when it comes to the women, I think I do a great job of doing it. Is my Frame weak or is my identity more aligned with the feminine?
Is this an objective good thing or a bad thing? Thoughts.