I went on a solo trip to Medellin, Colombia for 10 days. Here's my report. Open to your feedback! ✅ Wins - Arrived knowing almost no one and left having met 100+ people, forming multiple overlapping social circles - Built strong social momentum by the end of the trip — comfortably opening dozens of people in a single night - Invited to perform at a rooftop jam session for ~200 people (major social proof moment) - Integrated into several communities: musicians, salsa dancers, language exchange groups, coffee tour groups - Built a strong alliance with one key male friend and helped generate high-energy group dynamics consistently - Noticeable improvement in vocal projection, posture, eye contact, and overall presence throughout the trip - Stayed highly present by minimizing social media and prioritizing real-world interactions - Successfully isolated a woman and led a venue change home (strong logistical leadership, even without a close) - Consistently created comfort and connection in new groups — natural social glue ⚠️ Challenges Hesitation to Approach: Saw opportunities but held back at times due to assumption of low interest. Underestimating Attractiveness: Missed or rationalized away signs of interest (eye contact, proximity, engagement). Fear of Making Women Uncomfortable: Defaulted to safe/friendly energy rather than allowing interactions to become man-to-woman. Overreliance on Conversation: Tried to build connection verbally instead of leading physically or logistically. Late Escalation: Attraction peaked earlier than action was taken in multiple interactions. Early-Trip Confidence Dips: Lower vocal strength and internal certainty affected presence at the beginning of the trip. 📚 Lessons - Attraction often exists earlier than you think - Waiting for certainty = loss of momentum - Physical leading communicates intent more clearly than verbal explanation - Emotional momentum matters more than long conversations - Confidence shows up as decisiveness, not just loudness - Social proof (performer + connector role) significantly amplifies attraction - You thrive in socially warm, activity-based environments -

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Over the last few months, I’ve been quietly using ChatGPT as a communication training partner — and it’s helping me generate better relationships with myself and women. Here’s what I’ve been doing, and how it’s helped me show up more masculine and grounded in relationships: 1. I use ChatGPT to analyze my dating communication Whenever I’m unsure about a text, a frame, or a dynamic, I drop it into ChatGPT and ask: - What frame am I operating from? - Is this masculine or approval-seeking? - What’s the energy behind this message? - How would a grounded, non-reactive man respond? It gives me feedback that’s direct, emotionally neutral, and aligned with the masculine polarity principles we study in MOA. 2. I use it to identify my patterns It’s helped me see things like: - When I’m trying to people-please vs. lead - When I’m leaking insecurity - When I’m texting from anxiety instead of abundance - When I’m over-investing vs. holding frame This has made my communication more confident, concise, and intentional. 3. I use it to practice better responses Pretty much daily, I will send a voice-to-text message in ChatGPT reflecting on my day and curreny relationship challenges and limiting beliefs I've discovered. Each morning, I reflect on my limiting beliefs and replace them with more beneficial ones. 4. I also use ChatGPT for emotional awareness Sometimes I’m not reacting to a girl — I’m reacting to my own inner state. It helps me break down: - where I felt needy - where I got triggered - where I wanted reassurance - where my old patterns were coming up This has made me way more self-aware, calm, and decisive. 5. The results Since doing this: - My communication has become simpler and stronger - I overthink messages way less - I stay in my masculine frame more consistently - My dating experiences feel more relaxed and fun - I’m more aware of my triggers and emotional patterns After watching Michael Sartain's recent Text game video on YouTube I feel much of the same mindset shifts I'm making yield the same actions Michael recommends:

Does anyone know of any event that is in california and would want to invite people from MOA ? I’d love to go to one just to increase my social circle or also things like open mics for upcoming artist that wanna show talents as myself 🎧🎶🎤