Here is my list of the key takeaways, hope they add value to someone else as well:
💪 “The bigger the boobs, the less the accountability” – Hot girls are constantly being invited to a bunch of events which means if your event is not the biggest at the time a high flake rate. As a result you should be inviting way above the needed amount of girls and getting a gauge on the general flake rate percentage to know how many to invite.
💪 The power of breaking rapport – This took me a while to understand, but the idea behind breaking rapport is essentially a pattern interrupt that causes people to want to pay attention to you and learn more about you. Some effectives ways to do this is through: Comedy, status, value arbitrage (Connector, suggester, content creator), pre-selection and disqualification. Once you see this in practice you will be doing everything you can to repeat it.
💪 Treat them the same, make them talk about themselves – I lost count how many times I heard him say this during our time together, but its such a valuable lesson.
💪 The power of social media – There is a reason why the MOA motto is ‘Fix your fucking Instagram’. Everything I post is very thought out based on the brand that I want to represent to the world. When you are able to get this right, you will be amazed by the opportunities that come to you. I regularly have girls messaging me and other high status guys reaching out wanting to network / throw events together.
💪 It’s not about who you know, but who knows you – When you are able to get on the radar of other high status people you get invited to high status events which then serve as the perfect opportunity to invite girls from your list and further scale your network.
💪 Always be looking to add value to other people based on their PDE – You always want to be seen as the valuable guy that gives more than what you take. This will cause your relationships to really blossom and as a result get more access to things.
💪 The content is more important than the event – Learn how to take amazing content and make all events look even better than what they were. This helps a lot with IVE, having people see you as high status and serves as an easy way to add value to others and open threads with them.
Let me know if you want me to further expand on any of them.
What have been your biggest takeaways from MOA?💪