Hello I’m currently starting the process of divorce. My wife of 22 years said she is not in love with me anymore. I have 3 children and I’m currently working on improving myself to be a more present and stable partner. I’m not sure if I will be able to save my marriage but I still want to see lasting change in myself for my kids and future partner. My wife is my best friend and we still talk everyday but she feels like she can’t get there with me anymore. It’s been about 4 weeks since she broke the news. I’m trying to be a calm person in the house I haven’t tried to pressure her or ask how to fit it. I did say that I’m on a journey to become a better man and left it at that.