Hey everyone, my name is Ilja, I’m from Switzerland. I work as an anesthesiologist and intensivist, and alongside that I’m also a hypnotherapist, mainly working with anxiety and fears. I actually stumbled into this community more or less by accident while browsing through Skool… but what I saw here immediately caught my attention. The mix of meditation, inner work and spirituality felt really interesting. In my daily work I’m very much in a medical, evidence-based environment — at the same time, through hypnosis and personal practice, I’ve seen how powerful the inner world can be. That bridge between science and inner experience is something I’m really curious about. So yeah, I’m here to learn, to exchange, and to see what perspectives you all bring into this space. Looking forward to the conversations 🙏

In a world that constantly equates busyness with success, choosing to do less can feel almost rebellious. We are surrounded by messages that tell us to maximise our time, juggle multiple responsibilities, and push ourselves to keep up with an ever-growing list of demands. Full calendars are worn like badges of honour, and the ability to multitask is often mistaken for competence. Yet beneath this cultural narrative lies a quieter truth: doing more does not necessarily mean achieving more. There is a different kind of confidence available to us, one that is not rooted in how much we can carry, but in how intentionally we choose what to carry. It is the confidence to focus on fewer things, to give them our full attention, and to trust that depth will take us further than constant motion ever could. Much of the pressure we experience comes from the illusion that everything on our list matters equally. When everything feels important, we try to give everything the same level of energy and attention. The result is often a scattered effort, where nothing receives the care it truly deserves. We move quickly from task to task, believing we are being productive, while quietly feeling overwhelmed and dissatisfied. Research into attention and productivity consistently shows that this approach is not only ineffective but also mentally draining. Every time we switch from one task to another, our brain must reorient itself. This process consumes energy, reduces focus, and increases the likelihood of mistakes. Over time, this constant switching leads to fatigue and a diminished sense of accomplishment, even when we have been busy all day. In contrast, when we allow ourselves to focus deeply on fewer priorities, something shifts. Our thinking becomes clearer, our work improves in quality, and our sense of control begins to return. We are no longer reacting to everything at once but responding with intention. This is where meaningful progress is made, not in the frantic juggling of tasks, but in the steady, focused attention given to what truly matters.

Aroundthe world, the headlines are loud again. Another crisis. Another prediction that the future is unstable. Another horror occuring another story designed to tighten the chest and quicken the breath. And yet… Someone is still baking bread. Someone is still planting seeds. Someone is still teaching a child to read. Someone is still sitting with another human being, helping them breathe slowly enough for their nervous system to remember what calm feels like. This is the strange rhythm of our time. The world can feel like it is trembling, and yet life continues in kitchens, gardens, therapy rooms, classrooms, and quiet circles of people sitting together in reflection. And perhaps that is not accidental. Perhaps it is strategy. Because despair is powerful. When despair spreads, people stop trying. They stop building. They stop believing that their actions matter. Despair immobilises. Hope, real hope, does the opposite. Not the shiny, superficial kind that denies grief or pretends everything is fine. Not the forced positivity that tells people to simply “stay positive.” The kind of hope that breathes deeply, looks clearly at the world, and chooses to keep showing up anyway. That kind of hope is tactical. It is the quiet refusal to abandon the future. And it grows strongest in community. Community Is a Superpower Humans were never designed to navigate the world alone. We regulate one another. A calm voice can slow a racing mind. A reassuring presence can steady a nervous system that has been stuck in survival mode. This is not just poetry, it is neuroscience. When we gather in supportive environments, the body shifts out of chronic stress and into regulation. Creativity returns. Compassion returns. Our ability to solve problems expands again. Isolation amplifies fear. Connection dissolves it. A community where people know one another, support one another, and share knowledge becomes remarkably resilient. A neighbour who checks in. A shared meal.

Hi everyone 👋 it’s lovely to be here and be part of this amazing community I’m new to the community and yesterday I joined Amanda’s guided meditation for the first time and I felt truly at one and more self aware and more regulated and aligned during the meditation it truly was an amazing new experience for me and definitely something I need to share with you all and I know I now need to practise meditation and mindfulness on a regular basis to further help me on my own personal development journey and I would also love to try hypnosis to help me overcome obstacles in my life that don’t serve me to. A little bit about me TRIGGER WARNING : so I have suffered with very bad mental health for years and suffered with anxiety low mood and low self esteem and lacked in confidence and motivation and self sabotaging tendencies with over eating and smoking and vaping for years and I have also experienced a complete loss of identity and also suffered with suicidal thoughts which all stemmed from my childhood trauma and abuse and unprocessed and unhealed trauma and I ended up attracting more of the same into my adult life always needing to go back for the same help from the mental health services but the same lessons always repeated themselves until I learned the lesson they were teaching me I knew I needed to do something different to set myself free from mental health struggles and to refind myself my identity and a sense of hope and use what I have gone through to help others so what I’ve went through wasn’t for nothing and heal through helping other people whilst working on my own self development since I have started my self development journey back in July last year the universe has guided me to the right path and direction of good positive energy people who have been able to offer me inspiration and wisdom on my journey and been able to give me the correct help I have very much needed iam still.very much on my healing journey still but I know I have the right people by my side and in my corner which has gave me meaning and purpose and a sense of hope and inspiration and motivation to help other people who struggle with mental health and iam working towards becoming a mental heath coach in the future and I have already shared two speeches about my story at two different events and iam also writing a book 📕 too because I believe there is not enough resources to help people and people are not getting the help they need quickly enough and with more accessible services and better resources just like this community Amanda joy I believe more people can be helped I believe this is why the universe has guided me here to this community and too Amanda joy and I feel truly blessed to be here on my own personal development and healing journey so thank you for having me be part of something truly amazing and special from the bottom of my heart thank you for everything you do here in the community for people amazing 🫶❤️ ps if you’d like you can follow me on instagram under Healing after trauma and I’m also on Facebook under Sandra Henton thank you for reading my very long post 🫶

In our pursuit of mental wellbeing, it’s natural to seek out helpers, therapists, coaches, healers, who promise insight, relief, and meaning. Many practitioners do this work with integrity and care. But there is a dangerous line where guidance quietly turns into governance, and the helping relationship becomes something else entirely. Nicola Barragry a fantastic Hypnotherapist and friend recommended I listen to a podcast that told the story of a healer Ann Craig. Listening highlighted how important it is to understand what a helpful relationship is, appears and what is good and healthy in the therapy space. With the increased search for rapid healing and spiritual experiences more people are entering into unhealthy relationships and engaging in unhealthy practices on the therapy space. To understand how this can happen, it’s important to look at the cautionary case of Anne Craig, whose work in London’s elite social circles became the focus of the investigative podcast Dangerous Memories. Her story offers a powerful blueprint for what can go wrong when boundaries dissolve and influence goes unchecked. 1. The Lure of the “Pink Room” For Anne Craig’s clients, the experience didn’t begin with fear. It began with allure. She was often recommended by word of mouth among wealthy families as “that amazing healer lady.” The setting: Sessions took place in her home in Kensington/Chelsea, in a space famously described as “the pink room.” The hook: For young, intelligent women at a crossroads, the intimacy of a private home felt more enlightened and personal than a clinical consulting room. The experience: Early sessions were described as deeply validating. Clients felt profoundly seen. Craig was charismatic and warm, creating the sense that the “truth” behind their unhappiness was finally being uncovered. This is where ethical practice matters. In professional therapy, clear physical and relational boundaries are not cold, they are protective. They exist to ensure the work is about your growth, not the practitioner’s influence. When those boundaries blur, empowerment can quietly slide into enmeshment.