Mar 5 • General discussion & FUN
The Rescuer’s Dilemma ⚖️
What we lacked or felt unsupported in during our past often fuels our passion to help and rescue others in similar situations. 🔥
But wisdom discerns the difference between walking alongside someone and enabling them. 🚶♂️➡️🚶♀️
Understand the harmful effects of being a rescuer. When you do for others what they can do for themselves, you limit their learning and growth. 🛑
When you constantly rescue, you teach them dependence—not strength. 💡
Many fall into codependency, rescuing others while their own trauma remains unaddressed—this often leads to trauma bonding rather than true healing. 💔
Healing happens when support meets personal responsibility. Without both, the cycle continues. 🧩
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Your past pain doesn’t have to make you a rescuer—it can make you a guide. Lead, don’t carry. 💪
True strength comes from a secure and healed identity—one that isn’t easily offended or swept up in emotional storms stirred by past trauma. 🌪️
💡 Reflection: What makes you mad or angry? 😤
That frustration might reveal not only unhealed wounds but also the fuel for fulfilling your mission. 🔥
📖 "The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty." (Proverbs 21:5, TLV) 📜
How have you learned to support others without losing yourself in the process? Drop your insights below! 👇
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The Rescuer’s Dilemma ⚖️
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