HOUSE RULES Welcome aboard! Let’s keep this space safe, supportive, and productive for everyone by following these simple guidelines: 1. Create a Supportive Space Let’s keep this group thriving by: • Sharing uplifting thoughts and celebrating progress • Focusing on solutions, not problems, to keep the energy constructive (no negative Nancy vibes 😠) 2. Respect Everyone’s Journey • Treat all members with kindness, no matter their background, opinions, or experiences • Listen actively and avoid interrupting or dismissing others during discussions • Value everyone’s input — this is a space for growth and learning 3. Celebrate Wins (Big and Small!) 🥳 • Progress is progress, and it deserves recognition • Cheer on fellow members when they share achievements • Let’s support each other with genuine excitement and positivity 4. Add Humor (But Keep It Respectful) • We love some humor! • Feel free to share lighthearted jokes or memes that are relevant and positive • Avoid anything offensive, overly personal, or inappropriate 5. No Politics or Drama This group is about self-improvement and dating growth — not political debates or drama. Keep conversations focused on learning, connection, and progress. 6. Address Concerns Privately If you have questions, concerns, or need clarification, reach out to me directly. This ensures sensitive matters are handled respectfully without disrupting the group. (Please allow some time for me to reply — my schedule can get packed, but I’ll always get back to you.) 7. Zero Tolerance for Negativity This is a no-negativity zone. Any form of bullying, disrespect, or hate speech will result in immediate removal from the group. Let’s protect this space by leading with empathy and respect. 8. Post in the Right Categories Keep the group organized by posting your wins, questions, and discussions in the correct categories. It helps everyone find what they need faster and keeps our space clean and easy to navigate. Please comment “YES” below to confirm that you’ve read and agree to follow the House Rules 🫡

Hey guys! 👋 Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I wanted to do something special for this community as a thank you for keeping this group active and supportive. Dating With Clarity's Valentine’s Promo 💕 For a limited time, I’m offering 1:1 coaching sessions for 35% off — only for members of this group. If you’ve been wanting help with things like: - building real confidence (not “pickup lines” confidence) - knowing what to say and how to lead on dates - texting without overthinking - getting past the “stuck talking stage” - making moves without coming off needy or unsure …this is your sign to get support before Valentine’s Day hits. I don’t usually open up discounted 1:1s, but because you’re in here (and I can actually follow up and help you apply what we talk about), I wanted to make it available. Click this link to book your call: https://link.remotecoaching.app/widget/bookings/45mincoachingshells Use code: DWC35 during checkout Valid until: Feb. 14 only See you then!

🎉 Heeeyyy there! I’m so excited to have you here! 💖 You’ve just taken the first step toward transforming your dating life, and I couldn’t be more thrilled to have you join this community. Here’s where to start: 👉 Head over to the Classroom and check out the START HERE module. It will walk you through everything you need to know about how this group works, what to expect, and how to get the most out of it. Follow the steps inside. It’s designed to make things super easy for you so you can hit the ground running. If you have any questions or need support, feel free to message me here. I’ll get back to you as soon as I can. Let’s grow, connect, and make dating feel clear and confident again. You’re in the right place. 💪 Let’s do this! 🚀 xoxo Shelley

Hey guys! Happy first day of 2026 🎉 Hope your holidays treated you well and you got to slow down, eat good food, and be around people you love. I’ve been pretty sick these past few days (still recovering 😷), so thank you for being patient with me while things got quiet on my end. No shoutouts or posts because my body really said “sit your ass down and rest.” 😂 I do have an announcement 👇 This month’s free session winner is…✨ @Jordan Torres Congrats!! ✨ Thank you for showing up consistently and being active in the group — it never goes unnoticed. Send me a DM to claim your session 😊 📌 Quick update: Our Monthly Clarity Call is moved to THIS SATURDAY. Check the calendar for time + link and make sure you come ready to reflect, reset, and start the year strong. Excited to be back with you guys soon. See you on Saturday ❤️

Hey guys! Cancelling the session today and moving it to next week because I’m not feeling well. I’ll see you guys next week!