Be honest…
Badasses don’t give a sh*te what other people think.
But you?
You rewrite the text three times so it doesn’t sound “too much.”
You add a smiley face so it feels softer.
You explain your decision… just in case.
You say yes because it’s easier than the tension.
You replay the conversation later and wince.
You wonder if you came off arrogant.
You reopen decisions at 3 am because “what if…”
You don’t want to be difficult.
Or dramatic.
Or full of yourself.
So you stay reasonable.
Approachable.
Easy.
Good girls either struggle to break out
Or overfunction and burn themselves out
That's not valiant or commendable.
That’s good girl conditioning.
And it keeps powerful women small.
Overextended.
Second-guessing.
Abandoning themselves to keep everyone else comfortable.
If you felt seen (and slightly exposed 😅)…
You don’t have to become a full-blown badass overnight.
You just have to go BOLD-er.
More honest.
More self-trusting.
More direct.
Less apologetic.
Badass? Optional.
Bold-er? Powerful.
🔥 I’m Jen. With 30+ years of lived and learned experience, I help women liberate themselves from good girl conditioning.
Ditch the old script and go bold!