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Advice other than โ€œstop being a bitchโ€
thereโ€™s a Sartainism that I keep thinking about, which is โ€œyouโ€™re not depressed youโ€™re just a bitch.โ€ while this may be true, It might not actually be helpful to many people who are facing potentially diagnosable mental problems. So I want to hear from yโ€™all what actionable advice you would give to people here who have depression and/or anxiety. Here few tips that I hear a lot, so that we donโ€™t get a bunch of the same answers in the comments. - eat healthy - Work out regularly - Get good sleep - Practice some kind of meditation or mindfulness
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I think most of the depression comes from bad health. Bad diet Bad sleep Not going outside in the fresh air enough And then just not interacting and talking (just regular talk) with the people around them When I go through times when I dont go outside much besides work and dont talk to other people I start getting negative thoughts toward humanity. Whenever I go outside for a few hours and am just enjoying myself around friends and even strangers I'm like "what was I even worried about?"
Like who likes you
Donโ€™t chase women who do want youโ€ฆ that lowers your value.. like who likes you and it makes the game way easier ๐Ÿฅท๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ
1 like โ€ข Dec '25
@Wessel Witjes I agree because I think the whole reason guys joined MOA wasn't to get a girl. Anyone can get A girl. Like there are so many unattractive girls out there praying for a boyfriend. Guys often forget that ugly girls are also girls too. Guys join MOA so they can get HOT girls. Just being yourself won't work if "yourself" is not already something these hot girls want.
"Treat a tramp like a lady, and a lady like a tramp."
I have a lot of people giving me unsolicited dating advice in the past week or so. An older man gave me this advice. Being a millennial I had to research this, it's a Johnny Carver and Slick Rick song so it has a place in the zeitgeist. I get the gist of it, but how do you personally interpret this advice? And would you use it yourself?
1 like โ€ข Nov '25
Im 23, probably a lot younger than you, but I think boomers in general give terrible dating advice, they just grew up in a different time. Unless they were a boomer with a harem of hot girls.
How do guys like Michael handle backlash doing this in their 40s?
Like not being married with a kid and all that. It seems like once you get over the age of 30, the gaslighting starts from people telling you to get married and have kids. Like the Playboy life is meant for you 20s and such. What gets me is that it isn't really the women pushing this as much as it is the men these days. On social media comment sections, it is primarily guys gaslighting other guys for living the Playboy life at an older age. I wonder what happened to men in general here but how does Michael deal with that hate?
2 likes โ€ข Nov '25
@Jay Shah I think because a lot of the Gen Z guys are lazy and dont want to adapt. Then they're incels because of it. Most guys my age are either settling for 2s or they're like "the man should lead. The woman should submit to the man. The man...". They listen to this red pill content online, but then they dont work on improving anything. They're like "bad woman, bad bad woman." As a result NO girls are attracted to them ๐Ÿ˜‚. I am religious myself, but these guys are using religion as a crutch because they can't make it in the real world.
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@Phil Dave yeah. One of the most embarrassing things I've heard was this Gen Z guy go up to two attractive girls and say, "God wants me to get married early and many children as possible." As a religious guy I think that is not only blasphemous but also extremely cringe worthy. I dont think that's God I think that's Gen Z boy's d***. As a side note, both girls were disgusted and gossiped about him viciously later to me ๐Ÿ˜‚.
Building a social circle from 0
Hey everyone. For the last 3-4 years I have been going through life pretty much alone just focusing on making money, training and getting my mindset right. As a counterpart I completely neglected social circle. I have a good network of high networth individuals I can do business with but no people I can go out with or do anything with in general. Im now 20 years old and its time to work on this. Iโ€™ve tried to give some people I met a chance but I always regret it. Most people my age are untrustworthy, unreliable or just not good for reputation. I see no reason to go out with them. Here in Switzerland there is a pandemic of Talahons (pictures attached) and I donโ€™t want to have anything to do with that. Same thing with most girls. If you were in my place and had to build a social circle from 0 where would you go or what activities would you do to find high quality people.
Building a social circle from 0
1 like โ€ข Nov '25
@Ilias Filippou liberal hipsters ๐Ÿ˜‚, I agree, not high powered entrepreneur material.
1 like โ€ข Nov '25
@Ilias Filippou oh, theyre like the types who'd get high on weed, eat junk food 24/7, always complain, and watch porn all the time.
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