In our family, we regularly say "We do hard things." It's like the Webber motto. Recently, I've decided to get back in shape. I've been going to the gym consistently for about 2 months. However, the healthy diet has been more difficult. Then, I came across the sardine fast. Yep, just eating sardines for 3-7 days. I'm on day 2 and I've lost 7 pounds. Now, in general, I like sardines. However, for every meal is a whole new experience. I'm committed to keep going. My goal is 195, I'm now at 225. What hard things are you working on? Or, what hard thing do you want to start tackling?

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I was rereading Stephen Covey's "First Things First." If you haven't read it, I recommend it. Half of the book covers the gap between how we spend our time (clock) and what's important to us (compass- going in the right direction). Many times what's urgent takes all of our attention and we neglect what's truly important. Let's put First Things First this week. For some of you, this will require a great deal of attention and intention. Where to start? Make sure the important gets its rightful time and place. Things you might deem important, but sometimes or frequently neglect: Physical exercise Spiritual exercise Spending time with loved ones Self-care Learning new things, languages, skills Getting enough sleep/rest Spending time in gratitude Showing sincere appreciation to others Quiet time, reflection, pondering etc. Home maintenance, cleaning Socializing with and serving friends and neighbors Financial planning Volunteering for or mentoring others Tell us what you're going to no longer neglect and report back.

Challenge: Love your partner this week in a way that they really feel it. Make him/her feel special and important. Do the little things- notes, extra touches or some small services (hopefully you know the things that work for your partner). I challenge you to do it so much this week, that your partner says "what is going on?" And, when they do just say "I am working on loving you better. How am I doing?" Let us know what happens...

As we age, the passing of time seems all too fast. I have 2 kids out of the house and 2 still here (for the time being). I can hear the whispers- "cherish this time...it is going by fast...create and cherish meaningful moments." Although I am sure Jere' and I will enjoy each other in new ways as empty nesters, I want to enjoy today as much as possible. One of my favorite movies is Dead Poet's Society. Robin Williams character teaches Carpe Diem to his students- Seize the Day. As I grow older, I believe this to be an important philosophy. Work on being present this week. Put down your devices. Really be available to your loved ones. Make sure they know by deed and by words their place in your life and your heart. Tell us who does this for you. Who makes you feel important every time you walk in the room? Then, work on doing this for others and tell us about your efforts.