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Socializing With Women
I’m curious…to the men of this beautiful community…I’m curious to know how you guys are approaching or meeting women these days? At work? On the street? Apps? Social events? Through friends? What is your plan to connect with women and have conversations with them currently?
Socializing With Women
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I have done speed dating as well as apps. To be honest, the apps haven't been great, and they're usually not great for most. It is a valid avenue to use but like Shelley says, it can lead to burnout. Which is where I'm at. And a lot of them have said that the chemistry didn't match up, either in the app or IRL, so I'm feeling a bit deflated
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@Jordan Torres that's the one I'm on and it has been a mixed bag. Some possibles but it isn't working out with dates so far
Went Well
I went hung out with a new my new friend Lisa Today. We had Hot-Pot and Boba Tea. And we talk about a lot of stuff and plan on hopefully seeing each outside work again.
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Oooo hot pot is such a great idea! Hopefully it continues to go well!
WIN THURSDAY!!!
Hey guys! It's that time of the week to share some wins! What are you grateful for? Excited about? Comment down below
WIN THURSDAY!!!
2 likes • Mar 27
I scheduled another date and I'm trying to remember my abundance mindset!
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
Hello everyone. It's time to share some wins! Comment them down below 👇 I have paused the Q&A Tuesday for now to also help me catch up with answering some of your questions since I'm still catching up from the weekend.
WIN WEDNESDAY!!
1 like • Mar 18
I rescheduled my date with Courtney for this Friday and we made it an activity that is not having me on my foot so that I'm not hurting myself further. Plus I'm already going to megacon so she knows I'm going to be tired
GOLDEN NUGGET FRIYAY!
Happy Friday everyone!! 🥰 Here's some golden nugget for you. I was talking to one of my clients today about confidence. And here’s the truth no one is really saying about confidence: A lot of men think confidence is something you magically feel first before you take action. It’s not. Most men are sitting around waiting to feel ready. Ready to talk to her. Ready to put themselves out there. Ready to ask her out. Ready to handle rejection. Ready to be attractive. But confidence does not usually show up first. Confidence gets built after you do the thing. After the awkward conversation. After the shaky first approach. After asking her out even when you were nervous. After realizing you survived the moment you were overthinking all day. That is how confidence is actually built. Not by sitting there trying to think your way into it. Not by consuming more content. Not by waiting until you feel like some perfected version of yourself. Real confidence comes from evidence. And evidence comes from action. That means the man who is willing to take the shot, learn, adjust, and keep going will always build more confidence than the man who keeps waiting for the perfect feeling. So if you have been asking yourself, “How do I become more confident?” Ask a better question: “What would a confident man do here?” That means: - Starting the conversation - Sending the text - Asking for the date - Taking the risk of being seen Because every rep gives you proof And proof builds confidence way faster than overthinking ever will. This week’s nugget: Stop asking, “ How do I become more confident?” Start asking, “What action would a confident man take here?” Then go do that. Action step for today: Pick one move you’ve been delaying in your dating life and do it within 24 hours. COMMENT DOWN BELOW WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO THIS WEEK TO IMPROVE YOUR DATING LIFE 👇
GOLDEN NUGGET FRIYAY!
1 like • Mar 7
I think I shall finally join Hinge after using chatgpt to make a profile using the ideal woman worksheet and see what happens!
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Richard Wilkins
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I am an AuDHD anime loving, dice rolling, board game playing, dancing, biking, swimming, entertaining bear of a man who is a lonely one upon the land!

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Joined Nov 11, 2025
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