Heyyy guys. It's that time of the week again. Drop your dating q's down below!

Hey guys! Happy Fri-yay 🤭 Most men say they want to work on themselves But what they really mean is “I want dating to stop feeling stressful” So let’s make it simple When you like a woman, 1 of 3 things usually breaks down And THAT’S where you start 1) Your nervous system If your body goes into panic around women you’re into, you’ll sabotage without realizing it 👉🏻Overthinking 👉🏻Overtexting 👉🏻Trying to impress 👉🏻Freezing up 👉🏻Settling for “safe” conversations What to work on: Practice being calm while still showing interest That’s confidence Mini challenge for this week: Next time you feel anxious, do this before you talk to her Slow breath in Slow breath out Drop your shoulders Relax your jaw Then speak Your MAIN GOAL IS TO BE PRESENT 2) Your standards A lot of men chase because they don’t have a clear filter. So any attention feels like “this might be my chance” 👉🏻Then you tolerate mixed signals 👉🏻You over invest early 👉🏻You lose yourself trying to keep her What to work on: Get clear on what you want so you stop choosing from desperation Quick prompt: 👉🏻A woman I choose has… 👉🏻A woman I avoid has… If you can’t name these, you’ll keep repeating the same pattern 3) Your social confidence Confidence isn’t a personality trait. It’s a skill built through reps If you only “practice” when it’s a woman you really like, it will always feel high pressure. So you need low pressure reps. What to work on: 👉🏻Talk to people daily with no agenda 👉🏻Build comfort with eye contact, small talk, and leading a conversation Mini reps 👉🏻Ask someone for a recommendation 👉🏻Compliment someone and keep walking 👉🏻Start a 30 second convo and end it first Your real starting point: Pick the ONE that feels most true for you right now 👉🏻If dating makes you anxious start with nervous system 👉🏻If you keep chasing the wrong women start with standards 👉🏻If you avoid approaching start with social reps Comment 1, 2, or 3 and I’ll tell you exactly what to focus on first based on your answer

It's time for our Advent Calendar challenge! List your top 5 relationship values. Circle ONE you want to embody more this month. Does your behavior match these values? Feel free to share and/or comment them down below!

Where do we go to meet women these days? It seems to me that a lot of women that have let's say old fashion values never go out and stay at home. Or maybe it's because I don't go out much but when I do it's usually only the grocery store or a kid's park with my daughter.

Hi everyone. Sorry for being inactive but I've been occupied by doing a production of the Wizard of Oz. I want to share a story of my interactions with a girl who I communicated with on Plenty of Fish. At first then conversation was going really well as we were chatting about our shared interests, I got her phone number and everything appeared to be going in a good direction. When it came time to arrange a date, she said she wanted to do it and agreed a place to meet but when it came time to choose a day and time to meet, she didn't answer. I sent that text asking when suits her to meet about 10-15 minutes after she agreed on where to meet. She didn't answer the text when I asked if everything was okay and it got to the point where I just wished her luck and said I wouldn't be in touch again. I'm not sure what happened to decide not to reply just minutes after saying she wanted to go on a date and I also don't know why someone would give out their phone number to someone they didn't plan on meeting. I've asked people I know who can't understand why she would do that so I reach out to here to ask this community if you can theorise what happened as it is still something that baffles me