I started dating my penpal Bailey from China, and she invited me to come visit her in her hometown in Henan Province. And she said she wants to pay for my airfare tickets so I can focus on getting my passport book and travel visa etc. I even asked her if I can bring my friend and mentor Max from Kung Fu. She said yes. Ive seen her face not just pictures, but video chat on what used to be Skype, WhatsApp, and WeChat since early last year. And since this month we started dating. She never asked me for money. Or tried to use me. I just want to know is this a green flag or a red flag? I need ever ounce of wisdom on this.