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8 MONEY BLOCKS No One Told You About (This Thursday)
Hypnosis Isn’t Just for Love. It’s for Money Too. And what I’m about to say might surprise you. Most people know me for helping others build security in love: - calming the anxious, - softening the avoidant, - and rebuilding emotional safety. But what most don’t realize is this: Financial stress activates the same nervous system patterns as attachment stress. The same spiral that makes you chase or withdraw in love… also makes you overwork, hoard, or panic when it comes to money. I’ve seen it over and over again: - Men who could lead a company but freeze when checking their bank balance. - Women who feel confident in love - until money feels tight. - Couples who love each other deeply but can’t talk about finances without fighting. It’s not “money problems.” It’s money patterns. Last year, Maia and I decided to go all in on this. We joined a Money Academy - 8 long months of dissecting our financial conditioning. We faced every belief we didn’t know we had: - “There’s never enough.” - “It’s selfish to ask for more.” - “Money is the root of all evil.” and 5 more. Each one lived in our nervous system - just like love wounds do. And every time we cleared one, life shifted. But here’s what we realized: It doesn’t have to take 8 months. It can be done faster - if you work directly with the subconscious. So we built an 8-step hypnosis-based protocol that dissolves those blocks one by one. We call it The Money Mastery. And for the first time, we’re teaching it live in my workshop: How to Attract (and Keep) More Money Without Working Harder Thursday, Oct 30th · 11 AM EST / 4 PM CET €11 only (first + only time at this price) 75 minutes live workshop You’ll learn how to: ✅ Rewire the 8 subconscious money blocks keeping you stuck in scarcity ✅ Feel safe to earn, spend, and receive ✅ Build financial security that matches your emotional security If you’ve done the work to feel secure in love... but your bank account hasn’t caught up yet...
1 like • Nov 6
Grateful & Painful Announcement! Just realised "money is hard" as one of my limiting beliefs about money - After four days of compassionately and lovingly seeking to be shown my own blocks to money. As i breathed into the part of my body where I felt tension (right shoulder and down right side of my body) - this morning - the thought rose to the surface of my awareness The really tough question I now am asking myself is: was my nervous system holding on to this belief and literally feeling unsafe to create the opportunity to earn €11 or more thereby loosing the opportunity to attend @Matus' "8 Money Blocks No One Told You About" masterclass?
How to Heal After a Breakup with an Avoidant (Even If You Still Love Them)
Four years ago, when my own marriage ended, I spent months trying to understand why. Why she pulled away. Why I kept chasing her. Why love felt like running after a ghost. If you’ve ever been with an avoidant, you know that feeling... - the constant overthinking, - the silence that feels like punishment, - the panic that hits your chest when they withdraw. Healing from that kind of love is brutal. But it’s not about replaying what happened. It’s about resetting your system and learning to lead yourself again. That’s what I talk about in this new video: 🎥 How to Heal After a Breakup with an Avoidant (Even If You Still Love Them) 👉 Watch it below I break down 6 steps that help you reclaim your energy and rebuild self-respect. These ARE NOT the same 6 steps I’ll be teaching in Friday’s masterclass. That one goes even deeper into the nervous system tools to rebuild stability fast. But together, they’ll give you the full map to heal emotionally and physiologically. If you’re caught in the anxious - avoidant loop... if you keep thinking about “what could have been”... or if you’re just tired of waiting for closure that isn't coming... watch the video below. Because you don’t need them to come back to feel whole again. You just need to come back to you. P.S.: And if you haven’t yet - join me live this Friday, Oct 24th, 11 AM EST, for the free masterclass: How to Get Back in Control After a Breakup (Even If You’re Caught in the Anxious–Avoidant Loop) Reserve your spot here → https://breakup.loveleaders.life/ You’ll learn 3 nervous system hacks that calm your body in real time and stop the spiral before it starts. See you inside, Matus
1 like • Oct 24
As always, thank you for sharing your from your abundance with us all. Can't wait to join the masterclass
The Performance That Keeps You Lonely
Let’s tell the truth. Most of us don’t actually want love. Not at first. We want to be chosen. To finally hear someone say, “You’re it. You’re enough.” Somewhere along the way, our nervous system learned a dangerous equation: Chosen = Safe. Desired = Valuable. Wanted = Worthy. So we chase what feels like redemption. The unavailable one. The complicated one. The one we have to earn. Because if we can get them to choose us, maybe the old wound will finally close. But that’s not love. That’s performance. And performance always ends in exhaustion. Real love won’t demand your proof. It will ask for your presence. So I’m curious... Where have you noticed this performance show up in your relationships? Do you still feel the pull to be “chosen,” or have you started to choose differently? Drop your reflections below ... I’ll be reading every one.
2 likes • Oct 9
Wow! Matus thank you so much for your brilliant share Being able to grieve my inner child that sort love through performance is amongst the valuable lessons I learnt from your D.E.S.I.R.E. course I'm happy to share my nervous system reset is paying off - second week in a row of being free from anxiety Now, I'm boldly choosing myself - accepting & loving all parts of myself into wholeness Deeply grateful for your transforming coaching
Grateful to be here
Hi Everyone, WHOM AM I? My name is Okon Medekong I am currently working on resolving my inner choas from a 5yrs ongoing litigation process with our bankers as my business partner and I were gaslighted and framed-up for fraud. The trauma and underlying stress induced anxiety from my previous job where I wasn't giving my best caused me to spiral into severe depression At the brink of tipping point, my little effort at applying self efficacy and Grace earned me a scholarship to train as a breathwork facilitator at the international School of Alchemy of Breath (AoB), Tuckskany. Delving into my emotional world was like opening a can of worms - it was both scary and life transforming. Facing and understanding my deeply unresolved beliefs and fears around intimacy filled me with hope and empowerment to look inwards. My immediate goal is to become a love leader with the skills and experience to build a healthy relationship with the right partner MY GOAL? I am a spark of the divine and lover of Christ - sharing the truth about the gospel and being of service through breathwork I am so grateful at the opportunity of learning from Matus Hanidzair. WHAT'S WEIRD ABOUT ME. I have never experienced the joy of intimacy from a place of wholeness.
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I am breathwork facilitator in training and exploring opportunities to deepen my knowledge of the mind body connection as i pivot into a new career.

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