I’ve spent 8 years looking for a label. Am I a "Relationship Coach"? A "Performance Hypnotist"? A "Trauma Specialist"? I kept trying to put myself in a box. But yesterday, looking over my client notes from the last decade, it hit me. I’ve been in the same niche all along. I just didn’t have the name for it. No matter the client I work with... - Whether they are reeling from a breakup... - Struggling with insomnia... - Trying to heal from childhood trauma... - Or just lacking the confidence to speak up at work... It always - and I mean ALWAYS - comes down to three things: 1. Stress 2. Anxiety 3. Worry That’s the "Unholy Trinity" that keeps us stuck. Think about it. When you’re stressed, your brain goes into survival mode. You make bad decisions. You snap at your kids. You eat food that makes you feel like garbage. When you’re anxious, you can’t see the "ships" on the horizon. You only see the waves. For years, I’ve used Hypnotherapy and NLP to do one thing: Lower the noise. When we clear the stress, your state improves. When your state improves, your decision-making gets sharp. And suddenly, you have the resources to actually handle life instead of just surviving it. That’s what I’m sharing with the world now. The tools to kill the stress so you can finally see your design. And I want to start with you. As I mentioned on Tuesday, my wife challenged me to help as many people as possible. I’m offering a 30-minute discovery call - completely for free. If you are struggling with a habit, a memory, or a mental loop that feels like a weight on your chest... Let’s see if we can move it. If I can help, I will. For free. And then I’ll show others how I did it. ​[Book your free 30-minute breakthrough call here]​ Let’s lower the noise and get you back to your real self.

Today, my friend Nikki told me a story. And I can't stop thinking about it. You see... Four years ago, she went to a beach here in Bali. Ever since then, she remembered the road to get there as very steep. So steep that this time, on the way there, she was warning her friend: “Prepare yourself, this part is intense.” But when they arrived… They couldn’t find anything steep at all. No dramatic drop. No scary turn. No “oh shit” moment. Instead, Nikki kept asking: “Where is that steep road?” And then it clicked. Four years ago, she was a beginner on a scooter. New. Insecure. Tense. Overthinking every turn. So the road felt steep. Today? She’s experienced. Grounded. Confident. Same road. Completely different experience. The road didn’t change. She did. And yet… the story stayed. This is how so many of us live. We’re still reacting to life through stories that were formed when we were: - younger - less skilled - less resourced - less safe Stories that made sense back then. But here’s the problem: They’re still running in the background. They whisper: - “This will be hard.” - “I’m not ready.” - “This is dangerous.” - “I can’t handle this.” Even when the road isn’t steep anymore. Those stories don’t exist anywhere else. Not in reality. Not in the present moment. Only in the mind. And as long as they run unchecked, life keeps feeling harder than it actually is. Here’s the part that matters most to me. Once you change the story... once you update the lens you’re looking through... you might arrive and be genuinely confused. “Wait… this is it?” “Where’s the steep part?” And if you ask me? I’d rather be surprised and confused for a moment... than scared for my entire life. What about you? If you want to: - identify the old story that’s still running you - understand when it was created and why - and actually change it (not just talk about it) Comment STEEP and let’s talk. Isn't this the time to update your story... so you can start living like it’s now...

Hypnosis Isn’t Just for Love. It’s for Money Too. And what I’m about to say might surprise you. Most people know me for helping others build security in love: - calming the anxious, - softening the avoidant, - and rebuilding emotional safety. But what most don’t realize is this: Financial stress activates the same nervous system patterns as attachment stress. The same spiral that makes you chase or withdraw in love… also makes you overwork, hoard, or panic when it comes to money. I’ve seen it over and over again: - Men who could lead a company but freeze when checking their bank balance. - Women who feel confident in love - until money feels tight. - Couples who love each other deeply but can’t talk about finances without fighting. It’s not “money problems.” It’s money patterns. Last year, Maia and I decided to go all in on this. We joined a Money Academy - 8 long months of dissecting our financial conditioning. We faced every belief we didn’t know we had: - “There’s never enough.” - “It’s selfish to ask for more.” - “Money is the root of all evil.” and 5 more. Each one lived in our nervous system - just like love wounds do. And every time we cleared one, life shifted. But here’s what we realized: It doesn’t have to take 8 months. It can be done faster - if you work directly with the subconscious. So we built an 8-step hypnosis-based protocol that dissolves those blocks one by one. We call it The Money Mastery. And for the first time, we’re teaching it live in my workshop: How to Attract (and Keep) More Money Without Working Harder Thursday, Oct 30th · 11 AM EST / 4 PM CET €11 only (first + only time at this price) 75 minutes live workshop You’ll learn how to: ✅ Rewire the 8 subconscious money blocks keeping you stuck in scarcity ✅ Feel safe to earn, spend, and receive ✅ Build financial security that matches your emotional security If you’ve done the work to feel secure in love... but your bank account hasn’t caught up yet...

Four years ago, when my own marriage ended, I spent months trying to understand why. Why she pulled away. Why I kept chasing her. Why love felt like running after a ghost. If you’ve ever been with an avoidant, you know that feeling... - the constant overthinking, - the silence that feels like punishment, - the panic that hits your chest when they withdraw. Healing from that kind of love is brutal. But it’s not about replaying what happened. It’s about resetting your system and learning to lead yourself again. That’s what I talk about in this new video: 🎥 How to Heal After a Breakup with an Avoidant (Even If You Still Love Them) 👉 Watch it below I break down 6 steps that help you reclaim your energy and rebuild self-respect. These ARE NOT the same 6 steps I’ll be teaching in Friday’s masterclass. That one goes even deeper into the nervous system tools to rebuild stability fast. But together, they’ll give you the full map to heal emotionally and physiologically. If you’re caught in the anxious - avoidant loop... if you keep thinking about “what could have been”... or if you’re just tired of waiting for closure that isn't coming... watch the video below. Because you don’t need them to come back to feel whole again. You just need to come back to you. P.S.: And if you haven’t yet - join me live this Friday, Oct 24th, 11 AM EST, for the free masterclass: How to Get Back in Control After a Breakup (Even If You’re Caught in the Anxious–Avoidant Loop) Reserve your spot here → https://breakup.loveleaders.life/ You’ll learn 3 nervous system hacks that calm your body in real time and stop the spiral before it starts. See you inside, Matus

Let’s tell the truth. Most of us don’t actually want love. Not at first. We want to be chosen. To finally hear someone say, “You’re it. You’re enough.” Somewhere along the way, our nervous system learned a dangerous equation: Chosen = Safe. Desired = Valuable. Wanted = Worthy. So we chase what feels like redemption. The unavailable one. The complicated one. The one we have to earn. Because if we can get them to choose us, maybe the old wound will finally close. But that’s not love. That’s performance. And performance always ends in exhaustion. Real love won’t demand your proof. It will ask for your presence. So I’m curious... Where have you noticed this performance show up in your relationships? Do you still feel the pull to be “chosen,” or have you started to choose differently? Drop your reflections below ... I’ll be reading every one.