11 years. That’s how long I’ve been away from the soil I was born on. Australia. Spain. Italy. The digital world. But today, the 11-year loop closes. I’m sitting here in Slovakia, looking at my 6-and-a-half-year-old daughter. She’s about to start first grade. I look at my one-year-old son. I look at the trees here. And I realized: I need to be here. Fully. For the last year, Love Leaders has been a beautiful experiment. We explored the depths of the mind, relationships, and design. But every experiment has an expiration date. And for this community, that date is today. I’ve decided to sign a contract for a job in the physical world. I’m choosing to trade the "online" noise for the quiet of my roots and the presence of my family. So, effective today, I am closing the Love Leaders Skool community. It will be archived. The lessons will remain for a while, but the "doors" are closing. So I can focus on being a father and a member of my local community again. Does this mean I’m disappearing? No. I am still a hypnotherapist. I am still a coach. I am still obsessed with helping people crush the "Unholy Trinity" of Stress, Anxiety, and Worry. I will still be working with clients who want to use the power of the subconscious mind to change their lives. But the conversation is moving. If you’ve found value here, I want to invite you to stay in my world via my newsletter. That is where I’ll keep sharing what I learn. That is where you can reach me if you need help with a breakthrough. If I ever decide to reopen a community in the future, my subscribers will be the first to know. How to find me moving forward: 1. Stay on my email list (I’ll keep sending the good stuff). 2. Email me directly at [email protected] if you need a session. Thank you for being part of this experiment. It’s been an honor to lead this space. Go love your people. Go lead your life. See you in your inbox, Matus

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I’ve spent 8 years looking for a label. Am I a "Relationship Coach"? A "Performance Hypnotist"? A "Trauma Specialist"? I kept trying to put myself in a box. But yesterday, looking over my client notes from the last decade, it hit me. I’ve been in the same niche all along. I just didn’t have the name for it. No matter the client I work with... - Whether they are reeling from a breakup... - Struggling with insomnia... - Trying to heal from childhood trauma... - Or just lacking the confidence to speak up at work... It always - and I mean ALWAYS - comes down to three things: 1. Stress 2. Anxiety 3. Worry That’s the "Unholy Trinity" that keeps us stuck. Think about it. When you’re stressed, your brain goes into survival mode. You make bad decisions. You snap at your kids. You eat food that makes you feel like garbage. When you’re anxious, you can’t see the "ships" on the horizon. You only see the waves. For years, I’ve used Hypnotherapy and NLP to do one thing: Lower the noise. When we clear the stress, your state improves. When your state improves, your decision-making gets sharp. And suddenly, you have the resources to actually handle life instead of just surviving it. That’s what I’m sharing with the world now. The tools to kill the stress so you can finally see your design. And I want to start with you. As I mentioned on Tuesday, my wife challenged me to help as many people as possible. I’m offering a 30-minute discovery call - completely for free. If you are struggling with a habit, a memory, or a mental loop that feels like a weight on your chest... Let’s see if we can move it. If I can help, I will. For free. And then I’ll show others how I did it. ​[Book your free 30-minute breakthrough call here]​ Let’s lower the noise and get you back to your real self.

Yesterday, I was sitting with my wife, venting. I told her I was struggling. Trying to pick a "niche." Trying to dial down into that one, specific problem I "should" solve for the world. She looked at me and didn’t blink. "Matus, your niche is that you learn things that work... ... and you make them simple for everyone else." She challenged me right then and there. "Stop overthinking the "business" of it... ...and just share EVERYTHING." So, that’s what I’m doing. Starting today, I’m opening the vault on 8 years of work. As a hypnotherapist. Relationship coach. And parent. Trauma, phobias, addictions. Motivation, sleep, pain relief. Public speaking, confidence, and nervous system hacks. If it works, I’m sharing it. Every single day. But I want to start with YOU. I’m looking for the "impossible" problems. The habits you can’t break. The mental patterns that keep you awake. The relationship loops that feel like a dead end. I’m offering a 30-minute discovery call. Completely for free. Here’s the deal: If I can help you, I WILL help you. For free. In return? You help me show the world what’s possible. I’ll take what we solve and turn it into a step-by-step tutorial to help thousands of others. Sound fair? ​[Book your free 30-minute discovery call here]​ There are only so many slots in my calendar. If you’ve got a "thing" you’re tired of carrying... let's drop it together. Matus ​

Today, my friend Nikki told me a story. And I can't stop thinking about it. You see... Four years ago, she went to a beach here in Bali. Ever since then, she remembered the road to get there as very steep. So steep that this time, on the way there, she was warning her friend: “Prepare yourself, this part is intense.” But when they arrived… They couldn’t find anything steep at all. No dramatic drop. No scary turn. No “oh shit” moment. Instead, Nikki kept asking: “Where is that steep road?” And then it clicked. Four years ago, she was a beginner on a scooter. New. Insecure. Tense. Overthinking every turn. So the road felt steep. Today? She’s experienced. Grounded. Confident. Same road. Completely different experience. The road didn’t change. She did. And yet… the story stayed. This is how so many of us live. We’re still reacting to life through stories that were formed when we were: - younger - less skilled - less resourced - less safe Stories that made sense back then. But here’s the problem: They’re still running in the background. They whisper: - “This will be hard.” - “I’m not ready.” - “This is dangerous.” - “I can’t handle this.” Even when the road isn’t steep anymore. Those stories don’t exist anywhere else. Not in reality. Not in the present moment. Only in the mind. And as long as they run unchecked, life keeps feeling harder than it actually is. Here’s the part that matters most to me. Once you change the story... once you update the lens you’re looking through... you might arrive and be genuinely confused. “Wait… this is it?” “Where’s the steep part?” And if you ask me? I’d rather be surprised and confused for a moment... than scared for my entire life. What about you? If you want to: - identify the old story that’s still running you - understand when it was created and why - and actually change it (not just talk about it) Comment STEEP and let’s talk. Isn't this the time to update your story... so you can start living like it’s now...