When a breakup happens, it’s tempting to play the blame game. I know I did. After my wife broke up with me 3 years ago, I pointed fingers in every direction but my own. The problem with that? The moment you decide someone else is responsible for your happiness, you hand them the steering wheel of your life. And that’s dangerous. Here’s how it usually goes: She was drawn to you not just because of you, but because of your whole life. Your goals, your hobbies, your friends, your spark. You brought her into a balanced, vibrant world. Then, slowly, piece by piece, you started giving it up to “be with her.” At first she asked for more time, and you gave it. She thought she wanted it. But as the pie chart of your life shrank to just her, something essential got lost. She felt it. You felt it. Attraction faded. Resentment grew. It wasn’t her fault. It wasn’t your fault. But it was both of your responsibility. The good news? Attraction isn’t gone forever. The path back is not about becoming someone new. It’s about reclaiming the man you were when you were most alive. Balanced. Focused. Enjoying life. That’s what made you magnetic then, and it’s what makes you magnetic now. 👉 Where in your life have you “shrunk the pie chart” for someone else? 👉 What’s one piece you’d love to reclaim? Share it here. This is how we rebuild together.

Hi everyone. I'm Elmira, here in the United States. My biggest goal is to expand my capacity for love. By nature and with some traumas, I am avoidant - learning to be secure in every way. My soul mission is to heal the world of heartbreak (Already doing that) I know I can take humans further When I start with me! I have more room for love and connection . A weird thing - I can play a kazoo

Hi Everyone, WHOM AM I? My name is Okon Medekong I am currently working on resolving my inner choas from a 5yrs ongoing litigation process with our bankers as my business partner and I were gaslighted and framed-up for fraud. The trauma and underlying stress induced anxiety from my previous job where I wasn't giving my best caused me to spiral into severe depression At the brink of tipping point, my little effort at applying self efficacy and Grace earned me a scholarship to train as a breathwork facilitator at the international School of Alchemy of Breath (AoB), Tuckskany. Delving into my emotional world was like opening a can of worms - it was both scary and life transforming. Facing and understanding my deeply unresolved beliefs and fears around intimacy filled me with hope and empowerment to look inwards. My immediate goal is to become a love leader with the skills and experience to build a healthy relationship with the right partner MY GOAL? I am a spark of the divine and lover of Christ - sharing the truth about the gospel and being of service through breathwork I am so grateful at the opportunity of learning from Matus Hanidzair. WHAT'S WEIRD ABOUT ME. I have never experienced the joy of intimacy from a place of wholeness.

Hey. I’m Alicia. From New Zealand. My husband left me 2 years ago for our worker. He’s very hostile towards me. And I am still struggling to move on. We live close to each other. And share 4 kids one of whom he has nothing to do with.

I was created good. My work is good. My children are good. My vision is good. My love is good. My God is GOOD.