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Aug 31 •

Welcome to the Love Leaders community. This is your family on the way to become secure, calm, and naturally attractive in love and life. A Love Leader leaves fluff at the door. A Love Leader follows the proven practices. A Love Leader overcomes the obstacles standing in the way, no matter what. Be more concerned with your current trajectory than with your current results. If you're new here, here are the 3 steps to take - now: STEP #1. INTRODUCE YOURSELF Who you are. What your goals is. What is one thing that's weird about you. STEP #2. VISIT CLASSROOM My promise? To give you more stuff - for free than you get elsewhere - for money. Panic-to-Peace 6-day protocol is waiting for you. But, there might be more than that. Soon. Very soo STEP #3. GET READY FOR THE RIDE. This is just the beginning of a long journey we'll enjoy together. - Buckle up - Check out the Map (for Love Leaders who might live closeby) - and Calendar - for the upcoming events in the nearby future. It's an honor to have you and I'm looking forward to serving you with all that I've got. Blessings and much love to you! Matus, Love Leader

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Matus Hanidziar

3d •

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The Performance That Keeps You Lonely

Let’s tell the truth. Most of us don’t actually want love. Not at first. We want to be chosen. To finally hear someone say, “You’re it. You’re enough.” Somewhere along the way, our nervous system learned a dangerous equation: Chosen = Safe. Desired = Valuable. Wanted = Worthy. So we chase what feels like redemption. The unavailable one. The complicated one. The one we have to earn. Because if we can get them to choose us, maybe the old wound will finally close. But that’s not love. That’s performance. And performance always ends in exhaustion. Real love won’t demand your proof. It will ask for your presence. So I’m curious... Where have you noticed this performance show up in your relationships? Do you still feel the pull to be “chosen,” or have you started to choose differently? Drop your reflections below ... I’ll be reading every one.

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Matus Hanidziar

5d •

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The moment you stop chasing closure

Every man wants to understand why she left. That question feels like control. But it’s a trap. Because when you keep replaying the story - every fight, every message - you’re not healing. You’re bargaining with pain. You’re saying: “If I just figure this out, maybe I’ll feel okay again.” Real healing starts when you stop arguing with the past. When you let grief do its job. When you let a part of you die - the part still waiting to be chosen. That’s the doorway to peace. Not understanding. Not closure. Acceptance. And that’s where the reset begins. Calming your body. Reclaiming your mornings. Rebuilding your focus on the man you’re becoming, not the woman who left. Have you felt that moment - when you realize chasing “why” only keeps you stuck? Drop your thoughts below. Let’s unpack it together.

10d •

I over estimated my emotional capacity and inner strength to bounce back into a healthy emotional and physical relationship, after the sudden passing of my wife and very deep one year grief for her, she passed 17 months ago, I got sessions that helped tremendously from Matus 2 months after my wife passed which I am grateful for. I have been dating physically now for 5 months due to extreme loneliness I experienced considering my wife Mo was my soulmate and our identities was so intertwined we were basically inseparable. Right now I find my emotional connection capacity to bond deadened. Unfortunately, it doesn’t feel real and hunger for my wife deepens despite my gradual acceptance of her absence and need for another partners companionship. Presently I am lost emotionally. I wonder if this is my loss and grief talking or isn’t my new partner a good match.?

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Nath Nwodi

12d •

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Finding confidence,emotional safety and bond.

Hello everyone and delighted to be here. Hopefully my healing deepens here ,to help me confidently reestablish healthy and confident emotional bond where my heart leads me.

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