From navigating harmony and the community I put something together last night from all what I have read and seen and the feel I get from the words harmony and thrive….just thought I would share my little crazy creativeness….

Hey everyone, I need to go back to my intro and fill in some gaps I missed. My name is Nadine, from Hertfordshire. It’s been lovely reading about people backgrounds, insights and the 100 of things we all struggle with. My twinnies from the age of 2 years to 4 years was assessed and regularly reviewed before they were diagnosed to make sure they received a right diagnosis being so young. Which is when their consultant asked me to get a ADHD assessment. I presented told mental health back in 2007, 2011, to which diagnosed with depression and anxiety and medicated with anti depressants, but also a lot of blame around drugs. Go back to childhood, especially teen years I was so lost, didn’t fit in, honest with no filter and tried to act different with different groups of people to try and fit it. Never really worked, fell into drugs and found you could be yourself and you fit, everyone was welcome and accepted! Did we really want to go down that road? No was the answer in my later years but it was all I knew including the friends and people I had and got to know. Fast forward to 2020 when I started the twinnies journey, then mine and now my eldest child. The twinnies have been diagnosed with lots of complex needs, behaviours and health. I have been diagnosed and my ADHD is off the spectrum and still awaiting assessment for my eldest and already it’s been 3 years with a lot more years waiting! My twinnies (aka The Raptors) need 247 attention, supervision and I mean from the time they get up to the time they go to bed. Constant supervision they can not be left for a second. Which put my eldest in the back seat, whom is also beyond demanding and life has been beyond tough and that would be an understatement. It has also been beyond that for my eldest, which sadly siblings of neurodivergent normally do have to take somewhat of a beak seat. This is what I found out along our journeys other is the same in most neurodivergent households, not that it is ok but it’s real life for the most of us.

I’m dancing to the harmonious beat of ….🥁🎧 we are HARMONY, I got all my sisters with me.🎶 we are HARMONY, I got all my brothers with me…🎤🎙️ Get up everybody and sing 🎼🎵 When words can’t speak, MUSIC does 🎹🎸🎼 One area will touch the next, like notes cascading to create a beautiful melody. 🪉🪈 Take a tiny step, and let the SYMPHONY of the 🎻🪉🎷 HARMONY FAMILY begin.🪇🎶 Taking a step backwards after taking a step forwards is not a disaster, it’s a CHA, CHA, CHA 🪩💃🕺 I would love to be a part of this exciting magic, sprinkling the Harmony Family Love .🍾 🧚🏿 Promoting with reassurance a Calm Safe Space for us all to: ❤️ Learn Unlearn And Re-“Learn THRIVE not survive ❤️❤️ The HARMONY COMMUNITY AND TOOLBox includes 🧰✏️🛠️ Special Powers Training Embracing and Navigating our; Creations 🧭 Uniqueness's humour Strategically Brilliance 📝 HARMONY’s supported, centred and resourced essentials will NUTURE and help hold others distress as well as our own so we can lend our calm in their storm ⛈️ WE THRIVE THE STORM TOGETHER 🌪️☔️ We vibe BROKEN and rock WEIRD!! COZ WHEN WE ARE DIFFERENT we make a DIFFERENCE AND FIND OUR SPARKLE ✨✨

@Jim Ebbelaar application above…nailed it!! (A little cocky but just trying to be funny sorry)! Compliments of being an off the spectrum ADHDer. However, My 30 year plus of masking before being diagnosed and medicated left me with coping mechanisms I manufactured to get through life, like I had survived a 20 game of Jumanji 😂😂 This is what I think I can call on the job experience and was therefore more than lucky with the amount of open doors and opportunities I have been given along my career path!