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Main Learnings for Beginners (my take from 3 years in MoA)
I joined MoA in December 2021, back in the day when all the people who are coaches now were starting out as well. I’ve met most of them personally and lived with Michael for a month. I’ve witnessed a lifestyle I wanted for myself, and I had never seen anyone else live it before (least of all dating coaches). So I made it my absolute priority to burn through MoA and apply all the lessons as fast and clean as I could. It’s an amazing program, and if you follow it without adding your own touches to it too early I`m positive 99% of people can get great results after 6 to 12 months of implementing it. The last 3 years have been a very rewarding and amazingly interesting ride. I’ve gotten to know amazing people, experienced great adventures and also made some of my closest friends along the way. It’s not an exaggeration to say my life would’ve been radically different and a lot less fun had I not signed up for the program. My social connections, dating, and overall happiness are at a stage I honestly didn’t think possible, and if the journey would be over tomorrow, I could honestly say I’ve done more than the average man could do in several decades. I’m very grateful I found this thing still in my early 30s, and I’d like to give something back. That said, I have seen a lot of people reaching out asking for tips to get started. Also I’ve witnessed some or most guys (including myself) make some serious mistakes impeding their progress, so I thought I’d share my main takeaways and learnings along the way. This is highly subjective of course, here`s my IG if you want to check out what I’ve been doing these past few years: https://www.instagram.com/maxrichrt/ So here we go: - Really, REALLY fix your instagram first. It’s mentioned plenty in the program so I won’t go into it much. But I recommend you spend at least 3-4 months prioritizing this to a point where your Instagram has impressive content and around 30-50 posts, before you even consider anything else.
1 like • May 23
@Falko Rink I have a clear net worth goal and a career in screenwriting that takes up most of my time, my love life is an essential part of my happiness but not the only thing I’m actively working on. I agree as a man you should always have another primary goal, it’s just not shown on my IG same as you wouldn’t show your social life on LinkedIn. Hope that makes sense.
0 likes • Jun 19
@Justin Glatz it’s probably trial and error + standard video courses like Anthony Gallo
Circular?
So to get access to scarce resources the best way to do that is have a bunch of hot women with you but in order to attract them you have to pictures of scarce resources... I'm sure there's methods to the madness but I'm just trying to understand,I guess I gotta get in the program first
9 likes • Jan 8
think of it as an upward spiral not as a circle-- in order to get access to scarce resources, you need at least somewhat of a scarce resource first but not on that level you're trying to get to, it just needs to be in the ballpark and you can build it up from scratch. Practical example: - Fix your IG with scarce resources you can procure RIGHT NOW (travel / hotel lobbies, cool places with GOOD photography, clothing, posture etc.) You can do this without any prior experience or knowledge just with the resources from this forum. - Visit nightclubs on industry nights and / or pay your way into charity events etc. Connect with bartenders / bottle girls / guests. Take content with and for them. Follow them and have them follow you back. Build up your online following / circle that way. This is hard and will feel awkward, but you NEED TO DO IT. - Stay relevant by sharing regular memes and stories about your life multiple times a day. This is optional, but will increase mere exposure effect and visibility. Also, girls will react to your stories. they just will. - Offer your help inviting people to similar events or nightclubs in your area. Organizers will see your profile and your shared followers (who are industry people now) and trust you enough to extend invitations - Your invite is a scarce resource, once you share it with the people you've connected with and your cold list people will give you more credit in your local scene - at the events take photos with girls and influencers, put them on your IG and upgrade it from your initial photos - Do this many times over until you have an amazing IG and connections. - Throw your own event As you can see, none of these steps would be possible without the previous one. But you can start almost from zero and work your way up. Hope that helps!
Book List
Which book from Michaels booklist has made the biggest impression or had the biggest influence on you and why? I found Dan’s “The setup” to be very addicting to listen to. I got through the book in 2 days on 1.7x speed. It’s a very different take on success and how he didn’t necessarily sacrifice any of the “bad stuff” like sex, drugs, partying etc. Of course this is not gonna work for everyone but it was like a fresh gust of wind among the “monk mode, Winter Arc“ ideologies
2 likes • Jan 8
The Setup Very Important People Evolution Of Desire Top 3 for me
Photoshoot Review
Do you guys think these are valid to post? Did some editing with the lightroom app, Any suggestions to improve them?
Photoshoot Review
2 likes • Jan 7
Your settings are good. Editing can be improved. I recommend you change your style— find an avatar, character or people on IG you like as role models or that get the success you want and copy it. Posture is secondary but I’d always stand straight up, commanding and relaxed.
Beat the kindness out of me
Please explain what can I do, I have cut off friends, stopped smiling, no more jokes, yet I am still to nice, so I stopped talking and still women see me as “too nice” now I’m nasty and petty and I don’t like people and I’m getting older and more set in my ways. What else do I have to do to be “not nice” do I have to start slapping people? I haven’t had empathy for a while now, what else can I do? Running around starting fights was for 18 year old me.
0 likes • Jan 7
You can’t be too nice if your value is high enough. Other than over investing / over communicating your intentions and rewarding bad behaviour, once you’re in the tiers of what women would think a sexworthy guy, being nice won’t hurt you nearly as much. That aside I come from the same end of the spectrum, highly agreeable / emotional / sensitive. Reading books didn’t help as much as getting hurt, I just narrowed down the people I interact with to those that deserve me being nice. I found this easier than changing my natural, probably also genetic tendency. Also working on attributes that counterweigh your niceness works well— get in great shape, maybe have an edgy style, mma/kickboxing classes. I’m not sure I can truly get over being way nicer than most people, but honestly it matters less and less and in terms of girls it’s not the main issue if you’re not hitting your goals.
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Max Richert
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