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The Intuition Dojo

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You play small because you see limits. Together, we map the full spectrum of possibility & your highest potential. Stop drifting. Start choosing.

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311 contributions to ADHD Focus Founders
Intuition vs. Impulse (A System for Founders)
As ADHD founders, we usually get stuck in one of two modes: 1. Analysis Paralysis (Over-thinking) 2. Impulse Mode (Chasing the dopamine) I’ve combined 17 years of empowerment coaching with strategic intuition protocols to help high-achievers tell the difference. It turns out that getting a clear signal is a skill like any other—it can be trained. I’m teaching this method at the upcoming Oracle Cards Magic Summit (Jan 19-26). All online, no travel involved. (Don't let the name fool you—this is a deep dive on business strategy.) It’s focused on bridging the gap between 'visionary ideas' and sustainable revenue without burning out your nervous system. My session: Clean Signal, Every Time. Grab a free ticket here. Best, Matt P.S. Also, humble bragging that I got accepted to my first summit! Thanks to @Rex Loyer for letting me share this!
Intuition vs. Impulse (A System for Founders)
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@Alison St. Romain
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@Bill Widmer
ADHD, RSD, and the First Time Someone Leaves Your Community
I run a community for ADHD and I have ADHD - Churn hurts my feelings. Something people do not talk about enough is how intense the first member churn can feel when you have ADHD. When someone leaves, the ADHD brain does not read it as neutral data. It reads it as rejection. Even when you logically know people leave communities for a hundred reasons, RSD can turn that moment into an emotional sting. Did I do something wrong? Did I miss something? Was I not helpful enough? That first churn can land hard. Here is the interesting part though. With time, exposure, and regulation, that sting changes. After more churn happens, your nervous system learns something important. This is not danger. This is not personal. This is normal. As the emotional charge softens, the logical brain is finally able to step in and say, "People come and go. Needs change. Timing matters. Churn is part of every healthy community." That does not mean you stop caring. It means your system no longer treats churn like a threat. This is one of those quiet ADHD growth moments. Not because the feeling disappears instantly, but because you learn how to regulate through it and not let it hijack your sense of safety or competence. Curious question for you: Have you noticed moments where RSD felt intense at first, but softened over time once your nervous system learned it was safe? These are the skills that do not show up on a checklist, but matter just as much.
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The first one or two stung, yes. Probably helped me get to this years mantra, though: Don’t take anything personally.
DID YOU KNOW… we now have Eat the Frog co-working sessions for Global community too? 🐸
Yep - we recently rolled out a new Eat the Frog block so more of our global community can benefit (and honestly… it’s been powerful). Our Eat the Frog session starts at 5:00 AM Austin (CST) - which means it’s perfectly timed for our global crew 👇 🕰 Here’s what that looks like around the world: 💚 UK (GMT): 11:00 AM 💚 Germany / France (CET): 12:00 PM (Noon) 💚 Cyprus (EET): 1:00 PM💚 South Africa (SAST): 1:00 PM 💚 India (IST): 4:30 PM 💚 Philippines (PHT): 7:00 PM Here’s how it works: 💚 You lock in ONE priority task 💚 We co-work for 2 focused hours 💚 We check in every hour for accountability 💚 You leave having actually moved something forward And the results? 👀 🔥 Shoutout moment: @Sarah Hyland just finished a course that wasn’t supposed to be done until March 2026… and she completed it by January 1st — simply by showing up every single day to both of these sessions. 🔥 And we’ve @Verena Venus and @Venessa Phipps showing up daily too.. @Venessa Phipps being early bird like I am joins at 6am her time in the US — using this space to stay ahead on business tasks and build real momentum. @Verena Venus joins us even if she is tired and stays on top of her tasks! This isn’t about hustle. It about structure + presence + community. And yes.. it’s for everyone, no matter where you’re located. If you haven’t been checking the calendar regularly, consider this your nudge 👇 ✨ Go take a look and join us for the next Eat the Frog session ✨ Pick one task you’ve been avoiding ✨ Let the group help you stay with it Drop a 🐸 if you’re in and tell us what task you’d bring to the next session!
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I did know, and I think it’s awesome that you do this. Genuinely impressed.
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@Reema Rana Should I ever be awake and alert at that hour, I will.
The Power of a DM
Recently in my own community I had a brainwave and decided to DM each of my community members, here’s what I wrote: Hey there 👋 I just wanted to do a quick check-in and say thanks for being part of HomeSafe Academy. I’m genuinely curious — are you enjoying the community so far, and are you finding value in what’s being shared? Even a short “yes / no / a bit” reply helps more than you might think. I’m also always open to shaping this space around what you actually need. Are there any questions, concerns, or topics you’d like me to cover in General Discussion or other areas of the community? Home safety, home security, online safety, real-world scenarios, checklists, guides — nothing’s off the table. If you don’t feel like writing much, even a single idea or question is perfect. This community is a slow, steady build, and your input really does help guide where it goes. Appreciate you being here, Tim ThinkSafe · ActSafe · HomeSafe Would love to get some feedback on how you connect with your community members?
The Power of a DM
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I’m in the @Heather Di Rocco camp: a copy/pasted DM feels impersonal in a platform that’s supposed to be built on connection. I know of at least one community owner who uses this technique. It feels insulting on the receiving end, like I’m just another piece of impersonal meat rather than a person. That said, our time & attention as owners is limited. We can’t maintain personalized conversations with everyone, all the time. I like @Rebecca Bautista’s idea of using a CRM to help rotate a handful of names at a time. No idea how to execute that, but it could help keep the relationships personal—or at least not canned—which feels much better on the receiving end.
Hello 👋
I’ve started various business from kitchen fitting to a marketing agency. But nothing seemed to stick. I’ve only recently been diagnosed with ADHD and the more I look into it the more it makes sense. I find myself going into a constant loop of: Getting a new idea Research and build landing pages, ads and fb pages Lose interest Feel guilty and shameful that I can’t stick to it Find something else that looks interesting Then restart the loop. I’m looking for accountability and like minded individuals who have been through this to see if they can offer any guidance. Best Regards Kurtis
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@Sebastian Schroeder I can 💯 relate. Left on my own, in the wild, I have started and abandoned more projects than I can remember. I don't remember how I found my way into this group, but it's been one of the best things to ever happen to me. So many people helping people, swapping tips, and those Eat the Frog sessions... all of it adds up to traction. I've gotten more traction toward building my first *successful* business in the past few months than I did in the twenty years prior. Still a long way to go, and let me not say that all the credit goes to this group, but a lot of it does. Welcome, @Kurtis Goodwin! I hope you find both good friends and productive friction in here.
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