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Movement: The Informer
https://open.substack.com/pub/eppic888/p/movement-the-informer?r=8acb68&utm_medium=ios Movement is one of the most important aspects in my life. Everything in the world is in motion, from the rotation of the Earth to the flow of blood through our veins. Movement is not only a physical action; it is also helps us with growth, learning, adaptation, and progress. Human bodies are designed to move. Walking, running, stretching, and even simple daily activities keep us healthy and active. In sports, movement becomes fluid and purposeful, allowing development of skills, strength, and coordination. Nature also moves. Trees move with the wind, rivers flow downstream, and oceans rise and fall with the tides. The Earth continuously rotates and revolves showing us day and night and the changing seasons. Changing seasons bring about various weather patterns, food for sustaining life, and we have to adapt to those patterns to continue to survive and grow. Movement is a powerful teacher. Every step forward, is an action, and every action made is an experience of its own. In this way, movement acts like a coach, guiding us towards growth. There are no steps back from experiences gained through movements and actions. Every movement provides feedback. A runner warming up before a race learns how their body feels—whether they are fatigued, stiff, or ready to perform. This information helps them make decisions about their next move. In sports, business, leadership, and life, movement creates awareness. Action reveals information that cannot be gained by standing still. Movement also plays a vital role in communication and relationships. People adjust to different situations, personalities, and systems. Ideas, information, and emotions move between individuals, teams, and organizations. Effective communication requires flexibility—the ability to move up, down, and across different levels of understanding and interaction.
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The Version of You That's Already Dead
I used to carry mine around like a badge. Every mistake, every stretch where I was the guy who let people down, I'd pull it out in my own head like proof of something. Like if I kept reminding myself what a screwup I used to be, that meant I was being honest. Accountable. Humble. It wasn't any of that. It was just a cage I built myself and decided to live in. Here's the thing nobody tells you about your past self: he's not you anymore. He made decisions with less information, less skill, and less of whatever you've built since then. Holding onto him like he's still running the show is like showing up to a job today with the tools you had when you were nineteen. You wouldn't do that on the truck. Don't do it in your head. There's a difference between owning what you did and living in it. Owning it means you learned the lesson, you made it right where you could, and you let it shape who you're building now. Living in it means you've turned a closed chapter into your whole identity. One moves you forward. The other just keeps you small enough to feel safe. And then there's the people. You know the ones. They've got a long memory for your worst moments and a short one for everything you've done since. Every time you start to stand up a little straighter, they've got a story ready to remind you where you came from. Sometimes it's not even malicious, they just knew you when, and some part of them needs you to stay the guy they remember. Doesn't matter why. The effect's the same. You can't build a new standard standing next to someone who's only ever going to hand you the old one. You're allowed to walk away from that. Not with a speech. Not with a scene. Just less time, less access, less of your week handed to somebody who's invested in the old version of you instead of the one you're working to become. The man you were made mistakes. Let him rest. The man you're building doesn't owe anybody a daily reenactment of who he used to be. We're getting into this one live on tomorrow's Coffee and Clarity call. Come with your own version of this story, because you've got one.
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@Jeff Van Dam this is a great reflection. Very personal to anyone of our 8 billion people on earth. Hard to grasp unless it’s me is looking. I love you bringing awareness to this. Letting go of something to grow is huge. I held on to the old memories, the old versions for many years. Once I let them go it was like dropping weight on a tough climb up a mountain that helped propel me up it. The journey is the climb, the new version is developing up and on that climb, the view from the top is beautiful.
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@Jeff Van Dam sleep matters. This is a good example of being malicious by someone. Intent or not. That energy isn’t necessary by others and from their own lack. A simple about face from you and confidence in what your doing matters. Simple FU to the naysayers Don’t need others praise to see your efforts and evidence of progress is there. Helping one person is helping 1000
Thoughts of the morning
https://open.substack.com/pub/eppic888/p/starting-over?r=8acb68&utm_medium=ios
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You Said You'd Get Back To It. Did You?
I want to take a minute to say something I should have said more often. Thank you. You showed up early. Before the paid membership, before the full build-out, before any of this had momentum. You joined when it was just an idea and a guy who believed men in the trades deserved a better conversation about what they carry. That means something to me. So here's what I want you to know: your access is free. For life. That's not changing. You were here first and you'll always be taken care of because of it. What IS changing is that Anchored & Ready is going paid very soon. New members coming in after the launch will pay $35/month to be part of this community. The Coffee and Clarity calls, the resources, everything we're building here. You get all of it. Free. Forever. Something bigger is coming on June 15. Stay close. --- Now. Tomorrow's Coffee and Clarity call. We're talking about the big scary goal. The one you haven't told many people about. The one you put on the back burner when life got loud and somehow never picked back up. Most of us do this. We get deep into the day job, the family, the grind, and we quietly shelve the thing that used to light us up. We tell ourselves we'll get back to it. We don't. Here's what I know to be true: the goals that scare you, the ones that make you feel exposed just by saying them out loud, those are the ones worth chasing. And when you start chasing them again, something shifts in every other area of your life too. So before tomorrow, I want you to think about one thing you've been putting off. Not someday. The actual thing. Bring it to the call. Say it out loud. Let's hold each other to it. See you in the morning. Jeff
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Really appreciate what you’ve done here Jeff. Your growth and leadership has been awesome to watch and be apart of!
The Journey
https://open.substack.com/pub/eppic888/p/the-journey?r=8acb68&utm_medium=ios
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@Jeff Van Dam appreciate that! Thank you
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Matt Eppy
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Hi I’m Matt, Father of two lively, loving daughters. Over 20 years of experience in non profit leadership, human service mental health field

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