What if the secret to changing an unhelpful habit isn't simply STOPPING it... it's finding something BETTER to replace it with? A conversation with one of my coaching clients about upgrading an after-dinner snacking habit reminded me of one of my favourite frameworks: Tony Robbins' 6 Core Human Needs. The idea is that we all have six fundamental needs that influence our behaviour: 1️⃣ CERTAINTY: We crave security, predictability and familiar routines. 2️⃣ VARIETY: We also crave novelty, excitement and new experiences! 3️⃣ SIGNIFICANCE: We want to feel valued, capable and that what we do matters. 4️⃣ LOVE & CONNECTION: We need meaningful relationships, belonging and care. 5️⃣ GROWTH: We thrive when we're learning, improving and expanding what we're capable of. 6️⃣ CONTRIBUTION: We find fulfilment in making a difference beyond ourselves. Here's what I find fascinating... The habits we find EASIEST to maintain often meet MULTIPLE needs at once. For me, that's weights training. 💪 Certainty: I know when I'm training and what I'm doing. 💪 Variety: Different exercises, progressions and goals. 💪 Significance: I feel strong, capable and proud of my progress. 💪 Love & Connection: It's time I dedicate to looking after myself. 💪 Growth: There's always an opportunity to improve. 💪 Contribution: Staying healthy and strong helps me show up for others AND advocate for the animals and a kinder world. No wonder I rarely struggle to make time for it! Now think about a habit you'd LOVE to change. Perhaps it's mindless snacking after a long workday. Or scrolling your phone when you intended to go to bed. Or saying YES to another commitment when you KNOW your plate is already full! Before deciding you need more discipline, get curious. What is that habit GIVING you? Maybe it's certainty. A familiar ritual at the end of a busy day. Maybe it's variety. A little excitement after hours of routine. Maybe it's significance. A reward because you've worked HARD. Maybe it's connection. Comfort, pleasure or a moment that's entirely YOURS.