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Conference Advice Needed
I’ve got an overnight business professional conference coming up (Cutco sales, includes a factory tour during the day and dinner with some executives at night). Question: Is a tie considered necessary for business professional in this setting, or is a suit with a crisp dress shirt (no tie) still appropriate? I want to look sharp and respectful without being overdressed for the tour. Would appreciate input from those who’ve been in similar business/professional conference settings.
Daily Motivation
"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." Andre Gide Have a great day brothers.
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Love that quote!
The #1 Mistake Most Men Make When Starting Their Style Journey (and how to avoid it
When I first started caring about my style, I made the same mistake many beginners do… I thought it was all about buying MORE clothes. But I soon realized it’s not about quantity, it’s about building a versatile foundation: A few neutral shirts that match with anything Well-fitting trousers/jeans (fit is everything!) Classic shoes that elevate any outfit Once I simplified my wardrobe, I felt more confident, saved money, and actually looked sharper. For those of you who are new here, don’t get overwhelmed. Start small, master the basics, and let your style grow from there. Engagement: What was the biggest mistake you made when you first started improving your style? Or, if you’re brand new, what’s your #1 question about getting started? Let’s help each other out
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Love this advice — keeping it simple really makes sense. As a beginner, the part I still wrestle with is finding the balance between dressing sharp/elegant and accidentally overdressing for the occasion. Any tips on dialing that in?
Most men think style starts with clothes, but the truth is, it starts with identity.
When I first cared about how I dressed, I focused only on what was trending. Loud designs, jackets that looked good on a hanger but not on me, and piles of graphic tees that aged badly. What I learned the hard way: clothes alone don’t create style. Clarity does. - When you understand who you are becoming, you choose fit over fashion. - When you value yourself, you choose quality fabrics over quick fixes. - When you build with intention, even a small wardrobe communicates strength, discipline, and confidence. The shift happened when I stopped asking “What should I wear today? and started asking “Who am I showing up as today? That one mindset change has opened doors for me I didn’t even expect, not just in my wardrobe, but in the opportunities and people it’s connected me to. For the newcomers: what’s the part of style that feels most overwhelming right now, building confidence, finding your fit, or choosing fabrics? For the veterans here: what was the moment you realized style was more than just clothes?
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Really love that perspective, @Online Ninjas I’m definitely still in the newcomer stage — for me the hardest part is dialing in fit and figuring out which fabrics/colors actually work together. Excited to get that part down so I can start building a style that reflects who I’m becoming too.
Introduce Yourself (ALL Intros HERE Please!)
OK, so by introducing yourself you are guaranteed to get to level 2 - it's really that easy and I LOVE learning more about the cool people in this group. Feel free to share where you're from, why you're here, what you do for a living, and what you like about style. Are you a watch guy, suit guy, fragrance guy, or maybe just getting started? Have fun here!
Introduce Yourself  (ALL Intros HERE Please!)
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Hey gents, Joshua here! I’m 18 and based in Michigan. Right now I’m a Cutco sales rep, but I’m also building a startup called Leaning5 Studios — my vision is to create immersive VR storytelling that inspires people in real life. I’m big on fitness (volleyball + gym), tech, and sharpening my discipline. Faith is at the center of everything I do. Pumped to learn from you guys and level up my style, confidence, and mindset here.
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Joshua Rauhe
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Entrepreneurial student shaping the next Apple with Leaning5 Studios. Passionate about faith, fitness & living with purpose

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