Most men think style starts with clothes, but the truth is, it starts with identity.
When I first cared about how I dressed, I focused only on what was trending. Loud designs, jackets that looked good on a hanger but not on me, and piles of graphic tees that aged badly. What I learned the hard way: clothes alone don’t create style. Clarity does. - When you understand who you are becoming, you choose fit over fashion. - When you value yourself, you choose quality fabrics over quick fixes. - When you build with intention, even a small wardrobe communicates strength, discipline, and confidence. The shift happened when I stopped asking “What should I wear today? and started asking “Who am I showing up as today? That one mindset change has opened doors for me I didn’t even expect, not just in my wardrobe, but in the opportunities and people it’s connected me to. For the newcomers: what’s the part of style that feels most overwhelming right now, building confidence, finding your fit, or choosing fabrics? For the veterans here: what was the moment you realized style was more than just clothes?