While growing up as a child I wasn’t given anything, I was deprived of everything, no school books, no new stuff, no tv , I never even knew about birthday celebrations. Even if I was given something it was probably the cheapest. Not because we couldn’t afford, I was just made to feel unworthy. But I went to the best schools in my town, where all the rich kids went. I saw how much children were loved. During visiting days, my sister will send my grandma money to buy things for me but she will use the money and bring bread & meat, something I could not keep for long. Then she will tell me that times were hard and she had to use the money to pay the workers at the farm, then she plead that I lie that she bought everything I needed, of course I will, but later I’ll cry my eyes out! When it was time for holiday every other kid was excited but those were my worst moments because I knew I would be sent to my sister’s house since she was the one sponsoring me. I had to go and work , work and work in order to show appreciation to her for sponsoring me, if I made any mistake I’ll be beaten and sent out , even if it was in the middle of the night. When I called my grandparents that I wanted to go back home they will insist that I kneel and apologize because she’s the one who is capable of putting me in a good position in life! I used to write apology letters to both her and her husband and wait for their approval! There were times when my sister will remind me that she’s all I’ve got. The beatings, the insults, the rejection. And with everything I was still sent to the best university in my town. With no clothes, no bed , no basic needs! I was told to focus and study because many will want what I have! But I promised myself that I’ll never sponsor anyone like this, I won’t make them go through all of what I went through! So while at the university I hustle so hard, I sell stuff to my classmates. When I started making some money I started giving back, I would send foodstuff to my grandparents, send birthday gifts to my sister, I always went an extra mile for my friends but never want anyone to bother about me. On my birthday I just want a quiet time to myself, often I’ll cry and thank God for keeping me alive! Sometimes I’ll just wish my sister would even send something for me cos it’s my birthday! My friends see my as a very generous person who is a people pleaser. Honestly how do I receive from others? Cos I usually turn down gifts, I just feel like they shouldn’t bother, but deep down I really want someone to bother. Also I noticed that each time someone helps me i feel indebted to them. I alwaysss want to return the favor!

😔 "My room is a mess, and my mom didn’t clean it." 📚 "I got bad grades, and my dad didn’t support me." ⚡ "My parents are always fighting, and I don’t feel safe." 👶 "My siblings got all the love, and nobody nurtured me." 📢 "My family is too busy, and nobody listens to me." 🍫 "I wanted chocolate, not cereal, and they didn’t value my feelings." 🎭 "I feel discriminated at school because my classmates ignore me." 🧠 "I think I’m stupid because my teacher said so." 🎬 And the drama goes on… 💔 We’re sorry for not getting everything we wanted. 😢 We carry the "victim" label like a VIP badge. 🤔 But now, let’s flip the script: - How many times have we put ourselves in painful situations? - How many times did we ignore our needs? - How often did we let our life slide into chaos without taking action? If even we, who care the most about our happiness, mess up sometimes… how can we expect others to magically understand and fulfill ALL our needs? Yes, childhood pain is real. But let’s be honest—sometimes, we add extra drama, mix in our personal feelings, and edit the movie of our past to keep ourselves in the victim role 🎥🎭. And main point: we are not children anymore!!! Who are we blaming now? 🚀 For years, we've been the one steering our lives. 🔍 What have we been doing?🛠️ Fixing what’s broken?🤷‍♂️ Or stacking up excuses? ❌ Less drama.✅ More action. 💪 Time to reclaim our power! And take responsibility.

would you be interested in this? the BEST time to go to Sedona is in April May and while I'm there for a month I figured why not run another event! the energy of Sedona is so magical and it's the perfect place to do shadow work as well as LIVE meditations I'm thinking of having this one be like either 60 people tops so more intimate or the usual 100ish do you prefer one over the other? lmk if you'd join in the comments! the last live I did in Sedona was magical and people loved it that came so I'm excited to do this again! when it does go live I'd like to give you all first dibs since you are in the tribe as I'm sure it will book up quickly once it goes to my main email list since content from IG and youtube from the live events have been going viral I have a feeling it may book up quicker than usual UPDATE since some are asking... cost: tickets will be 297 for the 2 day live event and upon joining you will go into a facebook group where you can connect with other members and arrange shared airbnbs if you'd like. There are plenty of hotels and airbnbs to stay at regardless so you can do your own thing or connect with others at the last live event in sedona many people got airbnbs and shared the cost. its up to you tho I don't organize that part just the live event. I will give recommendations tho for hikes etc in an email too!

I literally just can't say enough about how my whole perspective has changed...everything inside of me has shifted..it's like once you know, you can never not know again . It's incredible!!!!!! Thank you High Vibe Tribe!!!! I feel so flipping FREEEEEEE!!! thank you Aaron you have helped me greatly 🙏💞

amazing session today!!! DAY 2 Replay is UP!!! today’s call was all about getting into your body and then feeling what came up to the surface to be released breathwork is one of the most powerful tools to let go of familiar patterns, attachments, and blocks so that you can shift into a higher vibration and a new way of being Homework for DAY 2: 🌟what did you realize you need to let go of? 🌟 journal on what was your biggest takeaway or insight from today’s session was. Feel free to share in the comments below Tomorrow is the last session and I’m going to talk about how to wire all of this in so that you can embody a new identity! see you on the call! replay is below and in the classroom tab “High Vibe Shift Challenge” area go to “Day 2: Letting Go + Breathwork session” p.s if you want to join the Miami live event in person OR virtual at early bird you can join here https://events.aarondoughty.com/2day-miami