🔎 Anything missing? Do it yourself!

Kátia Castro Costa

Mar '25 (edited) • Shadow work/innerChild Healing

😔 "My room is a mess, and my mom didn’t clean it."

📚 "I got bad grades, and my dad didn’t support me."

⚡ "My parents are always fighting, and I don’t feel safe."

👶 "My siblings got all the love, and nobody nurtured me."

📢 "My family is too busy, and nobody listens to me."

🍫 "I wanted chocolate, not cereal, and they didn’t value my feelings."

🎭 "I feel discriminated at school because my classmates ignore me."

🧠 "I think I’m stupid because my teacher said so."

🎬 And the drama goes on…

💔 We’re sorry for not getting everything we wanted.

😢 We carry the "victim" label like a VIP badge.

🤔 But now, let’s flip the script:

How many times have we put ourselves in painful situations?
How many times did we ignore our needs?
How often did we let our life slide into chaos without taking action?

If even we, who care the most about our happiness, mess up sometimes… how can we expect others to magically understand and fulfill ALL our needs?

Yes, childhood pain is real. But let’s be honest—sometimes, we add extra drama, mix in our personal feelings, and edit the movie of our past to keep ourselves in the victim role 🎥🎭. And main point: we are not children anymore!!! Who are we blaming now?

🚀 For years, we've been the one steering our lives.

🔍 What have we been doing?🛠️ Fixing what’s broken?🤷‍♂️ Or stacking up excuses?

❌ Less drama.✅ More action.

💪 Time to reclaim our power! And take responsibility.

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