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🎯 The 3 Ways to Stay Motivated (Most People Only Use One)
Many new year goals fail by February. Not because people lack commitment. Because they're only using ONE type of motivation. After 30+ years of research and interviewing 172 successful people, I've found there are 3 ways to stay motivated, and you need all three. Way 1: Away Motivation (Gets you started) - "I don't want to be unfit" - "I don't want to be broke" - "I don't want to stay stuck" - The problem? It runs out. A person joins the gym. A few weeks later, you've stopped going. Why? Because you're a bit fitter now, so the "away" motivation disappears. It's like standing next to ice. Move away, you feel warmer. The further you get, the less it affects you. Way 2: Towards Motivation (Keeps you going) - "I WILL run a 5K by June" - "I WILL save £10,000 this year" - "I WILL write my book in 90 days" You're moving towards something. The closer you get, the MORE motivated you become. Way 3: Reflex/Habit (Makes it automatic) - Morning journal at the same desk (anchor) - Exercise clothes by the bed (visual trigger) - Same routine, same time, same place (reflex) When it's a habit, you don't need willpower. The 3 Ways: 1. Away = Gets you started 2. Towards = Keeps you going 3. Habit = Makes it automatic Your Challenge: Pick ONE goal you have right now. Answer these three questions in the comments: 1. What are you moving AWAY from? 2. What are you moving TOWARDS? 3. What HABIT could make it automatic? 4. Let's workshop this together. I'll give feedback on every response. Who's in?
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1. Moving AWAY: being small (working for myself). 2. Moving TOWARDS: being bigger (being the owner of a business). 3. Automatic HABIT: knowing ONE programme inside and out (being the expert).
The moment I quoted 2.5× my normal fee, and he said yes without blinking
Are you comfortable with the fee rate you're currently charging? If the answer is yes, that might actually be the problem. In my experience, the moment a fee feels comfortable is usually the moment it needs testing upwards. Here's an exercise worth trying before your next client conversation: Imagine you were going to quote 10 times your normal rate. How would you describe what you do differently? What would you emphasise? How much more specific would you be about the outcome and the value? Now, go back to your normal rate. But deliver the description you just imagined. Most people who do this exercise come away with one thought: I've been undercharging for years. The 4 questions I always come back to: 1. Am I dealing with the right type of client? 2. What is the real value of the outcome I deliver? 3. What is one day of my life worth? 4. When will I next test my price? Would love to hear your thoughts on this. Drop your comments below 👇
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1. I hope to be soon as I'm now looking for small business clients rather than individuals. 2. It depends on the client's participation. It can be life changing or it can seem like nothing. 3. Good question. I'm not sure how to answer that. 4. After my next (which will be my first) Employee Support Programme delivery.
The Opening Line I've Used for 30+ Years (And Why It Still Works)
"I don't have all the answers." That's how I start every presentation. Have done for 30 + years. Here's the backstory: When I did my first seminar after selling my business, I noticed something: too many speakers had an "I know it all" style. Great content. But the delivery felt... off. So I thought: How can I be strong but also disarming? I landed on this opening: "Hello, my name's Peter Thomson. I'm delighted to share tried and tested ideas with you today. But before we start, there's one thing I need to tell you: I don't have all the answers." People told me it made them relax. It felt honest. Authentic. Years later, I learned WHY it worked: Professor Robert Cialdini (Influence: Science and Practice) identified it as a persuasion principle: admit a failing. The idea: Tell people what you CAN'T do before you tell them what you CAN do. Not weakness. Authenticity + authority. Your challenge: Think about your next presentation, pitch, or client conversation. What's ONE thing you could admit upfront that would make you more relatable? Drop it in the comments
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What a great way to not only make your audience feel relaxed that they are in the presence of a human but also a great way to pocket one's own feelings of imposter syndrome.
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@Ernie Boxall mmmm not sure how well GROK will down with people concerned about child internet safety and the bad press GROK s been getting lately 😊.
The Formula That Eliminates Resistance in Your Marketing (And Your Life)
I wish I'd written this expression: "Resistance is created through a lack of clarity." (Credit: Chip & Dan Heath, "Decisive") It's so simple. And so powerful. Here's what it means for your marketing: When people read your email, browse your website, watch your webinar and DON'T take action, it's not because they're lazy or uninterested. It's because they're unclear. "What do I do? What happens if...?" The solution? The Clarity Equation: WHAT + HOW × WHY² = CLARITY WHAT = What they're getting (clear target) HOW = How they're getting it (the path) WHY² = What they'll AVOID + What they'll GAIN Here's my challenge: Think about your current offer, service, or product. Answer these in the comments: WHAT are they getting? (Be specific) HOW will they get it? (What's the process?) WHY would they want it? - What will they AVOID? - What will they GAIN? Let's workshop your clarity together. I'll give feedback on your answers and help you sharpen your message. Bonus: This formula works for personal goals too. When you have clarity on what you want, how to get it, and why (both directions) you take action. Who wants to test this? Drop your answers below. Let's eliminate the resistance in your copy.
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For my POWER HOUR offering, on a pamphlet, I say: Join our one-hour weekly virtual co-working session where you show up, set your goals, and get things done. Take your productivity to the next level - one 'Power Hour' at a time. Day | time This is your time to thrive! Cost | website ---------------------------- WHAT are they getting? 1 hour uninterrupted dedicated virtual work/task space along side others for 'company'. HOW will they get it? (What's the process?) Register to join the Zoom room, work virtually. WHY would they want it? Focus, community, accountability. - What will they AVOID? Loneliness and disappointment in not having done the task. - What will they GAIN? Time to share what they'll be working on before the start (optional), 1 hour of focus then time to share what they've accomplished - accountability, networking, momentum to complete tasks they've been putting off ---------------------------- - I'm looking to write a post to promote the Power Hour and I'd appreciated help to make the message fluid and informative as a quick read. Thank you.
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Congratulations @Terry White - you're now 1st on the leaderboard :-) @Julie Stevens you're a close second :-) And thank you to everyone for your continued engagement/comments etc - The Paid Up Club Skool is growing at a great pace.
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Oooooh 😁.
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Life coaching from the inside - out • How much do you allow your external world to upset your inner world?

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