Many new year goals fail by February.
Not because people lack commitment. Because they're only using ONE type of motivation.
After 30+ years of research and interviewing 172 successful people, I've found there are 3 ways to stay motivated, and you need all three.
Way 1: Away Motivation (Gets you started)
- "I don't want to be unfit"
- "I don't want to be broke"
- "I don't want to stay stuck"
- The problem? It runs out.
A person joins the gym. A few weeks later, you've stopped going. Why?
Because you're a bit fitter now, so the "away" motivation disappears.
It's like standing next to ice. Move away, you feel warmer. The further you get, the less it affects you.
Way 2: Towards Motivation (Keeps you going)
- "I WILL run a 5K by June"
- "I WILL save £10,000 this year"
- "I WILL write my book in 90 days"
You're moving towards something.
The closer you get, the MORE motivated you become.
Way 3: Reflex/Habit (Makes it automatic)
- Morning journal at the same desk (anchor)
- Exercise clothes by the bed (visual trigger)
- Same routine, same time, same place (reflex)
When it's a habit, you don't need willpower.
The 3 Ways:
- Away = Gets you started
- Towards = Keeps you going
- Habit = Makes it automatic
Your Challenge:
Pick ONE goal you have right now.
Answer these three questions in the comments:
- What are you moving AWAY from?
- What are you moving TOWARDS?
- What HABIT could make it automatic?
- Let's workshop this together. I'll give feedback on every response.
Who's in?