Sup yall. I have an old ig with no photos but it has 1k+ followers there. I created a new one a few months ago that I plan to post reels on (as an music artist) and it has a in-progress grod, nice highlights and tons of open threads, but few followers. I’ve been handing out the old IG when I meet ppl more so than the new one (since I’m in college), so would you guys says it’s smart in my case to fix both IGs up to par until the new one is ready or only start handing out my developing new page from now on? Or option c keep both but only give attention to 1?

How do you keep online dating texting fresh. I hate it. The rhythm and flow of it is horrible and nonorganic.

Hey guys, I've just started my latino dances course but there aren't lots of latino social events and I take an hour lesson per week(eveey course has only four lesson in a month), to learn salsa and bachata. Let's be honest, it would take 10 years to get good at this with so little practice 😂 So I decided to also train alone, one hour a day. Any advice,tips or tricks to improve faster? 😁 I'm gonna commit 100% to be at the best, like everything I do. Cheers to everyone! 💪

Has anyone read Sun Tzu's "The Art of War" and how relevant would you say it is to dating? I am finding I am implementing a few of his tactics when interacting with women on social media. This is not to be an a$$hole, but to create mystery and healthy unpredictability. Thanks!

In today’s world, a lot of men are chasing the wrong metric. They want to be called “high value,” but value by itself is abstract. It’s internal. It’s what you are on paper or in isolation. Demand, on the other hand, is external. It’s what happens when the market actually responds to you. A man can be high value and still largely ignored if he places himself in the wrong environment or never becomes visible. The world does not reward potential it responds to presence. A high-value man focuses on self-improvement alone: skills, income, discipline, physique. A high-demand man understands something deeper that value only matters when it is expressed in a market that can recognize it. Demand is created when scarcity, visibility, and selection pressure intersect. That’s why some men keep improving themselves endlessly yet feel invisible, while others with similar traits seem effortlessly chosen. The difference is not worth its placement. This is the critical distinction most men miss. You don’t just want to be valuable; you want to be wanted. Wanted means your time is scarce, your presence is felt, and your absence is noticed. Wanted means opportunities, invitations, and attraction come toward you instead of being chased. That doesn’t happen through isolation or theory it happens through consistent exposure in the right arenas, where comparison and choice actually exist. In this life, all that we are and all that we are not is shaped by the prices we’re willing to pay. Becoming high value has a cost. Becoming high demand has an additional one: putting yourself where you can be evaluated, seen, and selected. Physique, finances, business, social circles, relationships none of it is free. Even awareness has a cost: attention, humility, and time. Keep striving, gentlemen. Not for the label, but for the position. Imperfect progress beats perfect stagnation every time.