In our journey toward healing and growth, it’s easy to fall into the trap of expecting ourselves to get everything right the first time. But real change isn’t about perfection—it’s about taking small, consistent steps forward, even when things feel messy or slow. Every moment of self-awareness, every boundary set, every pause before reacting counts as progress. Some days will feel easier than others, but all days are part of the process. We celebrate the effort, the courage to keep going, and the lessons learned along the way. Remember: perfection isn’t the goal—showing up for yourself and honoring your growth is.

Do you struggle with the question: “What should I do with my life?” Maybe you are stuck because it’s the wrong question. Across the wisdom traditions, there’s a deeper idea. In India, it’s called dharma. Originally, dharma meant the universal laws of reality. Then dharma came to mean your true path, what you are meant for, your place in that cosmic order. As my friend Bill Staines said in his song, All God’s Critters Got a Place in the Choir, some sing low some sing higher – there are things we are each meant to do that fits into the larger whole. So the question becomes, how do you find your dharma? How do you live it out? Getting back to that ancient wisdom, they tell us the way to find your dharma is to learn how to listen to your heart. Your heart is both compass and engine. It directs you toward your true path and gives you the power to walk it. How can you listen to your heart so you are actually doing what you are meant to do? One step is to dig deep into your values, over and over again. You can take a step in this direction by doing this exercise in our course: https://www.skool.com/heartfinders/classroom/4d383015?md=3e7a34cd69f94b66bfcddd151c7c6041 As you define and refine your values, your heart will tell you, through your emotions, if you are living in alignment with what is truly important to you. This will guide you to fulfilling your dharma. So here’s the takeaway:Your heart already knows your dharma. Listen to it. Follow it. And when you do, your unique song becomes part of the great music of the cosmos.

Welcome! You are here because you want to get unstuck, get everything you want in life, feel great about yourself, have peace of mind and find fulfillment. Feel free to share something that is amazing about you. What would your best life look like?