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I thought I'd share a little bit about my journey with ADHD today. I was only diagnosed in November last year. Even though it had been in my mind for a couple of years, getting that actual diagnosis was a revelation. It was like this pressure just lifted. My brother said something funny. He said "when people find out they've got ADHD, their symptoms get worse." And I had to explain to him that no, it just means they start unmasking. Because I've realised that one of the things I can finally do is just be me. I'm not wrong. I'm not failing. I'm just different. And that has been huge. I've suffered with anxiety my entire life. Depression too. And all the things that go with ADHD. The trouble managing my energy. The constant wondering "have I got CFS? What's wrong with me?" It's all linked in. And I realised just how many women are out there struggling with these same things. When I was a kid I remember them saying girls can't get ADHD. It was seen as an American thing, a trend, and it was all about boys. Now they know differently. But knowing I've had this my whole life and looking back at everything, it makes so much sense. The drinking too much when I was younger. Being told I was too opinionated. Always second guessing what I was getting wrong. Getting exhausted in the middle of the day. Pushing myself to the extreme with everything. Moving across the country in 10 days because it seemed like a good idea even though I knew no one where I was going. A whole life of impulsive decisions that I couldn't explain. Then as I got older and had a kid, which is when symptoms ramp up for so many women, and perimenopause started kicking in, everything got worse. I was forgetting everything. I couldn't keep on top of my life. That's when I started seeking a diagnosis. And what really got to me is that so much of the ADHD help out there is designed for men, by men. It's all about productivity. How to get more done. How to organise your life better. And that's not what I need right now.

A real one. Not the kind where you think about it for three weeks and then talk yourself out of it. An actual, concrete, put-it-into-action decision. And then my brain immediately tried to undo it. Not because it was the wrong decision. Not because anything bad happened. But because I'd made it. And now it was real. And my nervous system didn't know what to do with that. Let me back up. I've been going round and round about my niche for weeks. Months, probably. I know I talk about ADHD naturally. I know I live it. I know the people who find me are looking for exactly that. But actually committing to it, actually changing the language, actually building something specifically for women with ADHD. That felt like a different thing entirely. And then I had a session with my mentor and something clicked. The gut said yes. The body said yes. I started building. I created the group. I started putting it all into action. It felt right. Really right. And then I calmed down. And that's when my brain kicked in with the audit. "Was that really the right choice? Did you really do the right thing? Was it just a knee-jerk reaction? Was that your gut talking or was that your ADHD impulse to do something new and exciting?" Here's what nobody talks about. Everyone tells you to take the leap. Trust your gut. Back yourself. Do the thing. And then you do the thing. And the part that comes next, the bit after the jump, nobody warns you about that. Because after the jump, your nervous system goes into freefall. The excitement that powered the decision wears off. And what's left is this wobbly, anxious, second-guessing mess where your brain is cycling through every possible way this could go wrong. It's like jumping off a diving board and then, mid-air, wondering if there's water in the pool. And if you have ADHD, it's worse. Because ADHD brains are impulsive. We know that about ourselves. So every decision we make gets retroactively questioned. "Was that real knowing, or was that just dopamine chasing something shiny?"