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38 contributions to Rapid Transformation Mentoring
How are you feeling today?
If you’re not feeling great, what’s one thing you can do to find some momentum? If you’re on a roll, tell us about it. How can you keep the momentum going?
2 likes • 11d
I've started each of the last three weeks thinking that if I put my nose down and focus, I'll be caught up by the end of the week. Each week has been productive, (as evidenced by my invoicing totals) but my to do list is no shorter. The temptation is to work longer in the evening (pitfall of working from the home office) and start working a soon as I get up instead of getting some exercise. Problem is, when I've done that it takes more out of tomorrow than it adds to today. The key is to prioritize and focus and avoid the temptation to change priorities on the fly. Whenever I drop below the floor, I regret it, now matter how urgent it was at the time because I shortchange my future self.
I Proposed To My Partner On Sunday
Hi all, Just sharing a major life update from this weekend. I proposed to my partner after taking her out to a woodland gardens retreat. As this was one of the biggest decisions of my life, I want to share how it unfolded. For a quick recap, we live in Paris, France. However, we’re currently in West Sussex, England, as her elderly mother was hit by a car a few weeks ago. While nothing was broken, her mother’s leg is in a brace, and she cannot climb the stairs. It’s overwhelming for my partner to handle it all by herself, and hence, it’s all hands on deck. We’ve been here three to four weeks already, and have another month to go. I’m sleeping on the floor, and I’m essentially living out of a suitcase. For some time, my wardrobe has been a chair —and half of it still is. I initially planned to propose in Paris last month. However, since everything was up in the air and changing rapidly, we’ve both had to make instant changes and adapt extremely fast. In the midst of this chaos, the ring arrived. I’d been working on it and designing it with a friend in Sri Lanka (where I’m from), who is a jewellery designer (my Who over the summer), and whose place is where my partner and I first got together (I like the poetic circularity of that fact). The ring arrived at my mother’s place in London a week after I had reached West Sussex. One week after the ring’s arrival, I made a quick trip to Paris to sort out some work. The day I left was the first time I saw the ring in person because I dropped in to see my mother in London. That was last Monday, October 27th. That Monday, I booked the place where I would propose. On Wednesday, I got a haircut (to smarten up) and bought a ring box (since the ring didn't come with one). That Friday, I collected the ring after returning via London. And on Sunday, the day before yesterday, I proposed, under a full moon. While I do NOT recommend this course of action, with its tempo, pace, and timing, I am proud of myself for decisively acting in the face of shifting sands in this earthquake territory. I struck, like a ninja, to deadly effect–and no one expected it.
I Proposed To My Partner On Sunday
1 like • Nov 4
Congratulations! Wishing you all the best!
Interesting take on recognizing wins
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DP95n9QDYQ-/?igsh=cm5xNjF1dDNtdGEy
1 like • Nov 4
We do that. I haven't noticed the closure effect, but it gives remarkable insights into what is appreciated. Often, when something I have done is shared as a highlight, it is something I barely remember doing.
Throwback time!
Alright friends, let’s have some fun with this one. We talk a lot about growth in this group. The kind that happens in your business, your mindset, your relationships, and your life. But sometimes it’s fun to actually see how far we’ve come. So here’s the challenge: 👉 Post an old picture of yourself. It could be from high school, college, your first job, or that unforgettable haircut you swore was a good idea at the time. Looking forward to seeing some amazing pictures. All I’ve got on hand at the moment are toddler pictures. I’ll dig for some more of the really good and embarrassing ones: my long hair with the fly away curls, my frosted tips in high school… 😂
0 likes • Nov 3
@Jon Hord I think it was a 350. It was an absolute beast of a bike, I can't imagine riding a 400! I mostly used it for farm work. Moving irrigation pipes required a bike that was reliable and good in mud, with dual carbs it had gobs of power at low rpm. Two strokes would skate all over the place and cover the rider in mud while this thing would cut through and keep going.
0 likes • Nov 3
@Jon Hord I believe it, he must have been very good or big and strong or both! It's been too long since I've been on a bike, but it was one of my favourite things to do as a teenager.
Quote to ponder ? Money is like….
Money is like shit. You either let it pile up and it stinks, or you spread it around and watch things grow! in my own insecurity around money and being poor. I’ve always had this mentality you have to save save save! Until recently when I started investing in myself (Ben Hardy’s rapid transformation quarterly’s) or investing in other people. Then I started to grown, my business started to grow, people around me started to grow. This quote hit me hard when I listening the the social media kid that interviews billionaires (Hard Knocks) How does this quote hit you?
2 likes • Nov 1
Last Sunday I finished reading 'Mere Christianity' by C.S. Lewis and have been reflecting on the following nugget, "God has been waiting for the moment at which you discover that there is no question of earning a pass mark in this exam. Or putting Him in your debt. Then comes another discovery. Every faculty you have, your power of thinking or of moving your limbs from moment to moment, is given you by God. If you devoted every moment of your whole life exclusively to His service you could not give Him anything that was not in a sense His own already. So that when we talk of a man doing anything for God or giving anything to God, I will tell you what it is really like. It is like a small child going to its father and saying, ‘Daddy, give me sixpence to buy you a birthday present.’ Of course, the father does, and he is pleased with the child’s present. It is all very nice and proper, but only an idiot would think that the father is sixpence to the good on the transaction." Really makes me examine my motives.
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Dwayne Van Harberden
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