Aureliano Jardena

Hi everyone, my name is Dana. I am excited to deepen my relationship with my soul and following where it leads me. I'm happy to be apart of this community ☀️

New comment Nov 5

Aureliano Jardena

1 like • Nov 5

You’re welcome! 😊 How’s your journey been so far in the community? Have you been enjoying the discussions and connecting with people? It’s always great to hear how others are finding their flow here!

Jose Carchi

Oct 27 •

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This month I went offline as much as possible to reconnect with myself. I found myself hearing harsh self criticism, blaming, fear, verbal abuse. Last night a big part arose and gave me a realization I’m disconnected from meaning and purpose but most importantly I’m not good with emotional support or even receiving it in a healthy way. The city isn’t a pretty place and many are too busy or are just not people I should be going to. I’ve been having a hard time just expressing what I feel but today it’s clear I feel hopeless, a failure, scared and a sense of giving up. But then I ask what then was the struggle for? What then was the tears you shed almost every day? To be honest as I grew up I wanted to change the world and show people they had potential within themselves if they stopped and looked but I didn’t realize I also needed to do the same. Boundaries and speaking up for yourself plus sensitivity and vulnerability are my biggest struggles. Oh and of course regulating my emotions. Sounds like narcissism and you’re possibly right. But at least I’m being honest and trying to let go of the mask. I don’t know why I wrote this but one thing I do know I’m working on it. Oh I do ask too no validation on this I’m trying to let go of needing external validation.

New comment 21d ago

Aureliano Jardena

4 likes • Oct 27

@Jose Carchi Jose, thank you for sharing something so raw and real that level of honesty takes courage most people avoid their whole lives. What you’re describing isn’t weakness; it’s awareness, and awareness is the first step toward real growth. Reconnecting with yourself and facing those inner voices isn’t easy work it’s like emotional weightlifting (and unfortunately, there’s no rest day on the self-awareness plan 😅). But the fact that you’re observing, reflecting, and challenging those patterns means you’re already on the path to healing and rediscovering your meaning. Remember, progress isn’t always loud or pretty sometimes it’s just choosing to show up, breathe, and try again. You’re doing the hard part right now, and that’s something to be proud of. Keep going the world still needs that change-maker in you. And hey, even superheroes take time to recharge before saving the world again.