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5 contributions to How To Self Coach Your Nafs ?
Grateful for this space and community 🩵
Over the last two days, I intentionally stepped back a little — not because I had nothing to say, but to make space for your voices. Reading your reflections, outlooks, and concerns has been deeply meaningful. This community is not meant to be a one-way sharing space. It is a place where each voice matters. Your questions, your struggles, your perspectives — they all add depth and life to this space. Please continue to post, reflect, and respond to one another. You don’t need perfect words. You just need honesty. Thank you for trusting this space and showing up. May Allah put barakah in every sincere word shared here 🤍
Grateful for this space and community 🩵
💚💚💚 You reminded me of this beautiful hadith: Anas ibn Malik reported that the Prophet (ﷺ) said, “If the Final Hour comes (starts to happen) while you have a shoot of a (Palm) plant (or seedling) in your hands and you are able to plant it before the Hour comes, you should plant it. ” [ Al-Adab Al-Mufrad and classed sahih by Albani in As-Silsilah as-Sahiha #9 ]
Fearing Allah Alone!!!
اسلام علیکم I want to share something I'm struggling with and want to get out of ..so I have been quite introvert when it comes to public involvement but I used to speak up even If I felt afraid if it felt needed I had no other choice and while going from secondary school to college I felt anxious and insecure while interacting with public and going through this I realised consuming too much information or knowing too much from social media had made me too much careful and from then till today I'm trying to get better as I realised the importance of being carefree and its link to your relationship with Allah and your knowledge about him as one who knows izzat and zillat is in his hands is not afraid of public embarrassment...I would recommend every member of this community to be good communicator and fearful of Allah alone which is the only way to get rid of other fears which otherwise become an obstacle and as a Muslim we need to be confident ..جزاک اللہ خیر If anyone wants to add or advice anything related to this should do so
I've been through this too.. and i realized closeness to Allah is the solution too.. so the more i prioritize how i want Allah to see me not people the more i feel peaceful.. one tip has helped me alot to stick to this mindset is : to make daily thikr from 5 min to 30 min . And sobhan Allah , daily thikr is a life changing ibada.. i would recommend it to everyone in this world if i could do. Especially istighfar and tawba..
Your Voice Matters Here
Assalamu Alaikum dear members, I want to gently remind you why this space exists. This community is here for real conversations — the kind we often hesitate to have on social media. You are welcome to use this space to: - Voice a concern you’re struggling with - Ask for perspectives or ideas - Share something you’re trying to understand - Reflect on a situation and seek clarity You don’t need to have perfect words. You don’t need to arrive with solutions. Sometimes a sincere question opens doors that silence never will. 🌷 If something is weighing on your heart, post it. 🌷If you’re unsure about a decision, ask. 🌷 If you’ve learned something through your journey, share it — it may help someone quietly reading. This is a collective learning space. We grow not only through guidance, but through shared lived wisdom. Speak with honesty. Respond with adab. And allow this community to support you. May Allah place barakah in our conversations and guide us through one another. — From The School of Nafs Coaching, a humble means.
 Your Voice Matters Here
It's a blessing to have this safe space to have this kind of deep conversation. It's a pleasure for me to start: I've been having some worries related to stinginess. I do believe it's something in the human nature. But i think i do not have the right understanding of it. As people we live with put some expectations on us that build and lead our understanding of stinginess.. so we may think we're stingy when we're not.. we may feel guilty when we should not.. i would like to know how to distinguish between being stingy and prioritizing yourself? And how to become peaceful with prioritizing yourself regardless Of people's expectations especially family and close ones.. Bara Allah fikum
@Umm Salman baraka Allah fiki.. that's helpful 💚
Course Uploaded - Understanding Discipline.
Many of you came here asking one question in different forms: “Why do I know what is right… but fail to stay consistent?” I’ve opened a classroom called “Understanding Discipline” It is about training the nafs with clarity and mercy. Module 1 and 2 is ready. You can enter slowly. No pressure to finish. This is for those who want to become steady, not impressive. Posting the link here. https://www.skool.com/how-to-self-coach-your-nafs-4445/classroom/1cb9b427
Course Uploaded  - Understanding Discipline.
@Umm Salman ameen💚
I've just finished module( 1): i love how you connect between the verses of Qur'an , the questions and the actions.. you're giving us the principales of discipline from a Qur'anic perception, which is so human and so practical.. i appreciate this work .. May Allah accept your every effort you put and share with us. Baraka Allah fik.
Welcome to the new platform!
Welcome 🤍 We all know how instant gratification harms the nafs. Dopamine spikes promise pleasure, but often leave us emptier. This space exists to slow down — to reflect on delay, discipline, and inner alignment, through Qur’an, Sunnah, and lived practice. There is no pressure to post or comment. Silence here is also participation. May Allah place barakah in small, sincere steps. — How to Self-Coach Your Nafs
This is exactly what i need 💚 may Allah bless your steps
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