السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته I want to open a gentle, honest discussion — not to label anyone, but to understand ourselves better. From my own journey, I’ve realised something important: Sometimes, the same person can show people-pleasing in one relationship and narcissistic tendencies in another. __________________________________________________ For example: - With someone who feels controlling or emotionally unavailable, we may shrink, over-explain, and people-please. - With someone who feels clingy or emotionally dependent, we may inflate, withdraw warmth, or feel subtly superior. Both responses often come from the same place: 👉 a need to feel safe, not a desire to harm. __________________________________________________ This helped me see that: - Narcissism is often a pattern, not a permanent identity. - Attachment wounds can change how we show up, depending on power dynamics. - Healing isn’t about blame — it’s about awareness and responsibility. __________________________________________________ 🔎Reflection🔍 • Have you ever noticed yourself changing roles across different relationships? • Where do you think people-pleasing or emotional withdrawal shows up for you? • What helped you move toward dignity and balance? There are no right or wrong answers here. Every journey is unique. This is a space for reflection, not judgment. __________________________________________________ If this reflection resonated with you, feel free to share your thoughts — your insight might help someone else recognize their own pattern with compassion. Bi idn Illah.

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