Why You Need to Take a Break — Before Life Forces One On You
Let me get real with y’all for a second. For the last two years, I’ve been locked in — working, building, coaching, pushing. No vacations. No breaks. No “off switch.” Just straight grinding because I love what I do and I’m passionate about helping people get better. But here's the truth I finally had to admit to myself:You can be passionate and still be burning yourself out. I used to wear it like a badge of honor — never stopping, always climbing, always focused on that next goal. But instead of feeling accomplished, I started to feel... numb. Anxious. Unfulfilled. Like I was chasing something that never let me rest. That cycle of overworking is the same cycle that, years ago, had me turning to alcohol just to unwind. I didn’t need more willpower. I needed rest. I needed balance. I needed to stop believing that taking a break meant I was falling behind. Right now, I’m on my first real break in YEARS — a full week off — and I can already feel the difference in my mood, my stress, and even my creativity. My wife and I made a decision together that regular time off has to be part of our routine, whether we’re traveling or not. Because waiting until you’re exhausted, sick, or mentally checked out to finally rest… is not a strategy. That’s a breakdown waiting to happen. So here’s the message today: You don’t have to earn your rest.You don’t have to wait until you crash.You’re allowed to build rest into your process — not just reward yourself with it after burnout. Whether it’s work, your health goals, family stuff, or any pursuit you're pouring energy into… step back and ask: Are you making space for recovery, or are you just running on fumes hoping it gets better later? Because if you don’t choose to take breaks, life will eventually force one on you. And it rarely comes on your terms. Let me ask you this: What’s one small way you can start giving yourself more space to rest before you reach that breaking point? Drop it in the comments — let’s help each other make rest part of the plan, not the emergency.