Today I want to give recognition to @Dana R , @Jason Stobart and @Lawrence Gibson for their continued dedication towards taking bold new actions. They get extra kudos from me for also posting about their efforts here in the Brojo Skool to inspire and support others who are keen to make moves. More of this please everyone :) Thanks guys! Dan

After much reflection and consideration, I’ve decided it’s time to change how I create content. THE CHANGE, IN A NUTSHELL: Starting from next month, I’m going to be exclusively publishing full podcasts. My written posts and email newsletters will be full transcripts of the podcasts (edited to be readable), so that all formats of my educational publications will be long-form and deep. No more shorter videos (<20min) or posts. I won’t be cutting podcasts into smaller pieces or creating short summaries anymore. The podcasts will still be published as videos on YouTube, but full length. In other words, I’m shifting to a quality over quantity model. WHY THIS IS HAPPENING I’ve completed a thorough review of my best coaching clients and the other people I’ve observed who have made the biggest improvements with building their confidence, creating amazing social lives, and generally living with integrity. I found there’s something they all have in common that I didn’t know: They prefer long-form content. I should have guessed, as it makes complete sense. When they want to change, they go deep. They’ve listened to many hours of my podcast, or read my books in full, or completed entire courses. They engage actively in my 30 Day Challenges. They show up for the Brotherhood workshops, taking notes and attempting the homework tasks diligently. And I’m not the only person they’re following! They invest SERIOUS time and effort into their confidence building and self-development education. I’ve also discretely tracked the other members of my audience, specifically: the ones who “lurk” for a long time, often appearing enthusiastic but not seeming to make significant progress. They have something in common too: they prefer lighter content; medium-length videos, short posts, clips, dabbling briefly in courses, etc. Obviously there are a few exceptions, but these trends generally hold true. I’ve had a rude awakening: I’m actually enabling certain people to consume content obsessively without making serious changes!

Last night I was sitting crossed legged on my yoga block while the fire was roaring in the fireplace. My wife was sitting next to me reading on her phone. I look at her and say "I'm about to tell you how I'm feeling sexually. But before I do, I want you to know, this is my sexual energy and I'm responsible for how I feel. You don't have to do anything about. You also don't have to have sex with me just because I'm about to let you into my sexual world." She smiled and said "Okay." I told her some of the sexual fantasies and thoughts that was coursing through my body at the moment. I finished by saying "... and that's all. Just wanted you to know." She smiled and said "Thank you." I could tell it drew us closer together energetically. We did not have sex last night or even up until now. But that was me putting into action owning my own sexual energy and expressing my desire without needing sex or needing her to have sex with me. I learned this recently from a coaching session: ============================ "The paradox is this: pursuing her for sex kills desire, while expressing desire without needing sex creates it." ============================ There is more but thats the jist of what I learned. My job at this point is simple but harder in practice. Express my desire more often, without needing sex or needing her to have sex with me, in order to create more positive sexual tension and buildup in between when we do have sex. If I can consistently do this to the point it becomes automatic like talking about my day at work, it will lead to more self confidence. Probably a bunch of other good stuff too, 😏 but it's about controlling my input and then living with whatever the outcomes are. My challenge to myself and goal this past week, has been to do it once a day everyday IN PERSON, FACE TO FACE. I ended up expressing myself 4 out of 7 days. I'll take it, build from here, and let y'all know how it goes.

Dana and I set ourselves the rejection task of asking to pet a strangers dog yesterday. We both felt better for it. Today we have set ourselves the task of playing paper scissors rock with a random person. During the social confidence challenge, when I was doing the challenges and breaking out of the norms that we all live inside.... I felt anything was possible... keen to continue

Whut up everyone! I'm fairly new so I might be behind on this: I just started using Dan's AI coaching tool. It's been a FUCKING GAME CHANGER for me! I'm a keep this super short. The 2 areas I used it for are as follows: 1)How do I turn my wife on outside of the bedroom? 2)How do I stop feeling guilty when I have to give my kids consequences for breaking our house rules? Both of these sessions led to major breakthroughs. I started putting it into action immediately. No further updates right now. I plan on updating in a few weeks. Peace! ✌🏾