I don’t care who you are and what you think about me! You have no right to judge me! Now that I got your attention, does that really make sense? Does it? Because the reality is people are going to be judge you whether you like it or not. People have already formed an opinion about you the first 10 seconds you walked in a room. You cannot stop it not can you change it Should you care? Absolutely! Why should you care what people think about you? Well, unless you want to live under a rock alone for the rest of your life, unless you want it stay in the same position, the same life status then yes it does matter. Is it right for people to judge? No! Are they going to? Absolutely! You can buck the system of life and say you don’t care and remain the same or get passed by. But my question is this before you decide you don’t care what people think, are you where you want to be in life? Do you have everything you ever wanted or need? Do you not want the best prices on something, a discount , or maybe want to upgrade ? If you do then you better re think about your stance on not caring. Because every where you go people are going to look at you and judge you. And if they knew you previously, especially if you were the best person then, you better want them to see the new you and not who you were. People, if you want to get ahead in life if you want them best for you and your family then you need to understand this, people are going to judge you so you might as well give them the best version of you that you can. Whether its for that promotion, the job you wanted , the new house, or that new car, maybe that person you been getting all tongue tied over, you better wise up and do a little self evaluation and some self house keeping from within first them the outside of you. If they are going to judge and talk about you then give them something positive to talk about.

So I'm of the opinion that only jacket collars are to be popped or turned up against rain, wind, snow and cold. Also, once you enter a building or residence down it goes, similar to taking off a hat I guess. I don't see people doing this much anymore or if they have a turned up collar they leave it up all the time. I'm old enough to have lived through the early 2000's heinous trend of everyone running around with the collars on their polo's popped and I see younger guys doing it again now believe it or not. What's everyone's thoughts on this?

I used to think tailoring was only for suits, but I’ve realized even small adjustments on everyday pieces completely change how they feel and look. A shirt that fits just right or trousers hemmed properly instantly boost confidence. For me, tailoring has been the bridge between experimenting and sticking with classics — it makes the basics sharper and the statement pieces more intentional. Curious to hear: - What’s the first item you had tailored? - Do you tailor mostly formalwear, or casual pieces too?

My son's friends are really buyin' in to the daily fit check! It's getting fun. on the 13th we'll start the "12 days of fitmas. I gotta figure out who keeps rating me trash. Jive ass turkey

Can we stop with the weak victimhood mentality? So many people out here have anchored their identity in victimhood so hard that they forgot they ever had dreams to begin with. Who had it the hardest. Who's more hurt. Who's more "traumatized." Revisiting wounds. Repeating stories. Rehearsing pain over and over. Everyone's in a competition for who gets to wear the crown of pain. Who really cares? What are you doing now? Pain isn't status. It's the price of admission. You aren't supposed to "process" it and wallow in it forever. You aren't supposed to hide in the shadow of hardship to avoid the real work. Harness it. Aim it. Use it. Step up and create the ultimate version of yourself. Winners don't stay victims. They turn that which broke them into the weapon that builds them. There is zero nobility in wallowing in your sad story. The only nobility in your sad story is overcoming it and showing others they can do the same. ~ Andy Frisella