My son's friends are really buyin' in to the daily fit check! It's getting fun. on the 13th we'll start the "12 days of fitmas. I gotta figure out who keeps rating me trash. Jive ass turkey

Can we stop with the weak victimhood mentality? So many people out here have anchored their identity in victimhood so hard that they forgot they ever had dreams to begin with. Who had it the hardest. Who's more hurt. Who's more "traumatized." Revisiting wounds. Repeating stories. Rehearsing pain over and over. Everyone's in a competition for who gets to wear the crown of pain. Who really cares? What are you doing now? Pain isn't status. It's the price of admission. You aren't supposed to "process" it and wallow in it forever. You aren't supposed to hide in the shadow of hardship to avoid the real work. Harness it. Aim it. Use it. Step up and create the ultimate version of yourself. Winners don't stay victims. They turn that which broke them into the weapon that builds them. There is zero nobility in wallowing in your sad story. The only nobility in your sad story is overcoming it and showing others they can do the same. ~ Andy Frisella

Hello- Has anyone ever ordered any clothing accessories from Temu? Wondering about the quality. https://share.temu.com/WoTLbUeE2SC

Good morning gentlemen, Since I began this journey of becoming a gentleman it has been such a blessing for me. There was a time in my life that I felt that I didn’t exist, that no one even noticed me. I felt an invisible and just a no one. Once I began to work on myself and I began to change my look, people started noticing me, I mean people would make an effort to not only acknowledge me but to make it a point to make contact with me. Now, at first I felt uncomfortable going from people not noticing me to when I walk in a place whether inside or out I became the center piece of that environment. People would want to get to know me, offer assistance when I came into establishments, or just want to be around me. Now, no matter where I go I receive compliments people ask if they can take my picture or even can they take a picture with me. Women asking to take a picture, making statements that they wish their husband or boyfriend would dress like me. My business has skyrocketed, my contacts have increased by over 80 percent from before I started this journey. So why am I saying this? Because if you feel out of place by the way you dress, your manners, the way you carry yourself, it is okay you will learn that they are not looking at you out of discuss, but out of admiration and respect. Gentlemen, how many of you received or are receiving compliments on a regular basis since you started this journey? I would love to hear your experiences and I’m sure others would too. This is what this community is about to share and encourage each other. Take this pole and then write how you feel your transition affected you.

Here is another collection of unposted past outfits all featuring the same olive green jacket. I hope this becomes a source of inspiration for someone. Enjoy!