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Ties
I inherited grandfathers and fathers little collection of ties. Any suggestion for the gentleman from those photos ? (1st - friends birthday, 2nd - workplace Outfit, 3rd - something more casual, aka experiment with 60s).
Ties
3 likes • 1h
I'm with Jason, he's spot on. Otherwise great pieces. Hang on to those ties they look really nice.
Apparently, not like a bicycle.
You know how they say some things are like a bicycle and you and you don't forget? Well, I guess that is not the case with a safety razor. I started using a safety razor and got used to using it with no nicks, and then I grew a beard for a couple of months. When I shaved it off I have noticed that it's almost like starting over again. These last two times I have shaved, I have nicked myself. Is this just me or has this happened to anyone else? Is this normal?
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No, this is not unusual, and it is not a personal failure. It is a reminder that memory of a skill is not the same as the continuous practice of a skill. The saying about riding a bicycle suggests that once a pattern is learned, it is permanently retained. Yet even that example is misleading. A person who has not ridden in years may still “know how,” but the first moments back on the bicycle are hesitant, unsteady, and cautious. Knowledge remains, but fluency fades. Observe a school sports day where fathers join their children in a short race. I know every one of them remembers how to run.🫣 Yet their legs, lungs, and timing no longer cooperate with the confidence they once had. The knowledge is intact; the embodiment has weakened. Using a safety razor is no different.
1 like • 18h
@Al Voss 😁 It is, without question, a delicate subject. Some Dojo's hand out belts without worth and others only after months if not years of practice and dedication. This topic grazes ego and unsettles pride. My view may provoke disagreement, yet I hold it deliberately: no individual can truly claim mastery while still living. As long as one breathes, one remains in the process of becoming. Mastery implies completion; life guarantees incompletion. The moment a person declares themselves a master, they risk mistaking progress for finality. Perhaps mastery is not a title to be claimed, but a condition others bestow when the work is finished when the craftsman can no longer improve because time itself has closed the workshop. Until then, we practice.
Are We Doing Our Part?
Good morning ladies and gentlemen, One thing that I have noticed when it comes to people, people are quick to complain about situations but they did nothing to prevent, change it, or offer an alternative. For example, people complain about the election but did not vote. Some will say I did vote; okay, let’s look at this for a moment. When that person first started his career, did you pay attention to his platform? Or let’s look at work, people complain about the new rule or policies, did you voice your thoughts or opinions in the company suggestion box? When they were talking about problems leading up to this policy did you speak up? Let’s look at laws, people complain about laws, but when they were being discussed in legislation did you attend rallies, when a bill was on the docket before it was passed did you voice your opinion? What’s my point? This is the point, as ladies and gentlemen in this world we live in we have to be aware of the things around us that involve us directly or indirectly. A lot of laws, and decisions are being made around us everyday and we fail to either pay attention or care until they become in effect, then we want to complain about them. This is a critical time for most of us as we get older and are going to rely on the next generation to take over. This means we need to be active in what is happening around us, the next generation coming up they may not have values and morals. So we need to be teaching them the correct ways and how to live, and to make a better future. If we all wait for the next person to get involved or do something then no one will or the wrong people will step up and take over. Let’s make a conscious effort to stay informed and be present in the things around and things that affect us.
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American politics is one difficult topic to phantom and also why I avoid the constant churn of American news. Yet, as you rightly point out, your observation touches on a profound philosophical truth. Participation precedes judgment. Complaining without engagement is a kind of intellectual laziness, a detachment that undermines both responsibility and agency. To critique elections without voting, policies without proposing alternatives, or laws without raising a voice, is to demand change from a position of absence rather than presence. The absurdity of it is almost comical.... Its like complaining about a meal you never helped cook. (I know that all the gentleman here are refined enough to know better, but you get my point. ) Even in my own work, when I draft policies meant to enhance well-being and security, I sometimes falter. Living in the gray areas of decision-making is inevitable; the world is complex, and intentions often collide with outcomes. Yet your point remains: without active participation, without showing up for the processes that shape our shared spaces, the wrong people...or worse, no one, will step up. Life’s governance, whether political, professional, or social, is never self-executing. It requires attention, engagement, and teaching the next generation to care and act with ethics and discernment. To remain passive is to allow the currents of circumstance to dictate the terms of our existence. True influence, and perhaps true hope, emerges only from presence, conscious, deliberate, and persistent. A president or leader who drifts toward authoritarianism tests the vigilance of a society. Philosophically, this is the tension between trust and scrutiny: we grant authority to enable governance, yet we must not surrender judgment to complacency.Thus, the measure of responsible citizenship is twofold: act where you can shape outcomes, and remain vigilant where unchecked power threatens the integrity of the systems that allow you to act.
3 likes • 19h
@Stephen Arnold absolutely. This can be seen time and time again whether it be politics or corporations even with people who have good intentions could have disastrous effects.
Introductions
I spot a few familiar faces here! For those who don’t know me, I’ve been part of another online group where I have been learning patiently from those generous enough to share their insights. Each exchange, each observation, has been a small lesson in the art of growth. Along the way, if I can glean something new and pass on something, that feels like progress. Geographically, I have lived as far north as Alaska to Florida. Japan I call home as I've spent more than two decades there. With work I find myself navigating the layered textures of Europe. As my professional life lies in IT, yet that is merely the lens through which I interact with the world, it shapes certain tendencies but never confines the essence of who I am. I look forward to learning and growing with you all here.
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@Albert Asiamah thank you
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@James Kinney cheers. I appreciate it.
Boundaries
Good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen, Many of us on this journey have learned to set boundaries especially when it comes to work and relationships. Because of our new status, or new position at work, has caused us to set boundaries to protect us from either being taken advantage of from being hurt, whatever the case maybe. Remember the boundaries that you set are yours, they are not you work, not the people that you are in relationship with, or even family and friends. they are your boundaries, which means that only you can remove them or move them. And if you allow those boundaries to be moved or removed, there is no one to blame but you, because you are responsible for your own boundaries. So, take ownership and set and control your boundaries you created them they are your responsibility.
4 likes • 8d
Ah, boundaries, the only thing more sacred than the “last slice of (pizza)” rule. I am curious to learn of some of your boundaries? For me. I never talk to grown Japanese men who ware Hello Kitty slippers in public🤔. Or a coworker who tries to critique MY life choices...I just raise an eyebrow, and point to my imaginary (but very official) sign that reads, “Sarcasm and unsolicited opinions strictly prohibited,” and resume my coffee-drinking. I trust you sense the theatrical but entirely necessary, gravity of my point
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Jeremy B
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