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Casually Business Casual
Business Casual used to basically mean sport coat, dress shirt no tie. Today this definition is incredibly nebulous since the vast majority of guys are not wearing ties these days. I believe the key to developing a suitable personal style of business casual involves three things 1) be aware of your environment. The three Fs Antonio speaks about Fit, Fabric and Function all apply here but the main focus is Function. In other words based upon the venue and culture at the event-what one wears when and where to a specific function should be understood by every gentleman attending. 2) intentionality. Be Intentional with your ensemble. For me simply not wearing a tie to the luncheon I attended today might be enough to be business casual-but to me, showing up with a blue OCBD or point color dress shirt, Navy blazer, and grey slacks would feel like I simply ran out of the house and forgot to put on a tie. Consequently to go to a community Luncheon my wife puts on at our church each month then returning to the house to complete paper work -felt like a perfect day to go Business casual. With temps slipping back up to the low 90’s I grabbed a brushed cotton burgundy blazer Orvis duck cloth khaki jeans-cut trousers, Orvis cut and sewn shirt, silk P Square to tie in the colors of the pants and burgundy coat , Indiana Jones Alden Boots and my Borealis dive watch. 3) Consistency, Each of us differ based upon our respective personal style and career. When @Richard Pollock wears a Chambray blue shirt with chinos or jeans that in my line of work might be too casual to be even business casual. Contrastingly for Richard, when he is going out on sites his ensemble may be comparatively the same as me wearing a three piece suit if attending a meeting with a group of trust attorneys and a client. He is dressed in his full armor like I in a coat and tie am dressed in mine. (Maybe adding a sports coat over his great Chambray shirt is better comparison to my trust attorney example🤷🏻). The details are less important than the consistency. Richard’s customers and guys he interacts with have become used to him looking sharp and from what I gather when he orders his company logo gear, and chooses classic fabrics, he is possibly the best dressed guy in his meetings. (9 out of 10 times I am as well for my meetings). Point is. Each of us are in our respective business attire. It’s how we interact in our roles-not the garments themselves. So to reiterate his professional attire differs from mine but serves the same function and each of us are pretty consistent. So for me today’s outfit for a business /community luncheon is pretty casual based upon how folks consistently see me through out the day-day after day. (I still had a few million dollars of clients assets in that room😉). This is the consistency part.
Casually Business Casual
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@Trevor Hudson thanks trevor
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@Nolan Hanson thank you
Money and Clothes
As a guy who has been in the finance world for nearly 43 years, 2/3 of which as a financial advisor, I basically see people’s expenditures on a pretty intimate basis. And I’ve seen lots of them. When I was a Raymond James Branch manager we had over 4,000 accounts for which I was responsible. Considering I’ve also been dabbling in Classic Timeless Menswear since I was 14 years old (1975), a fellow brother’s posts in the community triggered me to offer my two cents on clothing and money. I went through some old photo albums and saw clothes that are well over 30 years old. Much of which I am still wearing ( see pics from the 1990 to 1993 time period primarily) Many others I would happily buy new today (examples are the casual batik shirts that I replace when they finally give up the ghost). To me there is a tremendous overlap of frugal finance and timeless style. So from a financial professional’s point of view here is my take on clothes and money. For the better part of my financial advisor role, I, like many in my field was pretty dismissive of Dave Ramsey. Most of us constantly are reducing his work to being “pretty good for people who are in a lot of unnecessary debt” but not that useful after that in guiding people.” To be honest I used to recommend his courses to client’s spoiled kid (yes many times spoiled by my clients who were the first generation of having wealth). These “kid’s ( mostly in their 40’s) had gotten themselves in a lot of financial trouble and I knew enough without actually reading his books that in their situation they might benefit from him. One time I had a week or so before speaking with a spendthrift daughter of a client so I thought “what the heck” and spent half of a Saturday morning speed reading the 9 week Ramsey course that I had been recommending. I was shocked on how valuable his stuff was. Here are just two things I discovered: 1) I learned that even though I had never had a car payment since I was married and had never paid any interest on a credit card since realizing how stupid that was 6 months into our marriage-I was still wasting a lot of money on expenditures simply because of the “ease” of pulling out that card. Every fast food restaurant in the world knows how much more folks spend with a card versus cash. On that particular Saturday morning I was still working for a regional bank when I looked at the previous year’s Credit card statements (cards chosen so I could get mileage on an airline🙄). I had dropped over $36,000 on credit cards the previous year. After Taxes! That meant that I had to earn $52,000 before taxes to spend that amount $40,000 each year can buy a hell of a lot of flights fellas. Credit card miles are usually a scam and certainly had became a dangerous justification for overspending in my case.
Money and Clothes
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@Alex Kilpatrick I am very proud of you nailing the most important Ramsey argument: being debt free. That puts you in an extremely small minority well done. I hear what you are saying about doing the math and it sounds like you are quite good at that. But finances are more emotion than math for 99% of folks. You might be that rare 1% that are disciplined enough (now) to stick to the math and let that drive your decisions (but be aware of the odds-as a guy who started in sales in 1967 we are trained to respond to your emotions and they always exist). One of the quotes by Dave Ramsey is “normal is broke, so be weird”. You are weird my friend- and I mean that in the absolutely most congratulatory way. Stay weird and you will be wealthy by the time you are my age.
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@Anthony Buntyn certainly my friend
OOTD-CW - 9 October 2026
Finally got to the end of the crazy intense timelines. Granted, now I can catch up on all of the issues pushed to side during this time. My son is home from college for four days starting tonight and we're taking holiday photos this weekend. I flipped around a lot of the AI-app built outfit today to add in some pieces I wanted and then additional pieces that felt better suited to the outfit. As always please share your thoughts, positive and negative. Friday wear-balancing note: The least-used visible pieces are SL-027 (trousers) with 3 tracked wears and NT-042 (tie), CL-020 (cufflinks), and FR-006 (fragrance) with 5 each. The workbook’s current strict bottom-35 list consists entirely of zero-wear items, so none of today’s selections technically falls within that group. • Shirt — DS-047 (Charles Tyrwhitt): A crisp white, mid-weight cotton shirt with a subtle herringbone-twill texture, classic point collar, and adjustable French cuffs. Its high opacity and formal structure provide a clean foundation for the patterned tie; it takes 2.5-inch collar stays. • Undershirt — US-009 (Pro Club): A heavyweight mid-blue cotton crew neck in size XL, cut with a roomy fit and near-elbow sleeves. It remains concealed beneath the opaque white shirt while reinforcing the outfit’s blue palette. • Trousers — SL-027 (Michael Andrews Bespoke): Bespoke charcoal wool trousers with blue and gray patterning, made in the United States from 11-ounce Holland & Sherry basketweave. The excellent fit, matte finish, and two-inch cuffs give the outfit its tailored foundation while adding only the day’s fourth tracked wear. • Vest — VWC-002 (Charles Tyrwhitt): An indigo-blue wool vest with a light-blue sharkskin pattern, five navy buttons, and full lining. Its texture distinguishes it from a plain navy vest and supplies upper-body structure without requiring a jacket. • Tie — NT-042 (Silvio Fiorello): An Italian three-fold Duchesse-silk tie combining blue, navy, teal, and off-white geometric motifs with a restrained sheen. At only five prior tracked wears, it advances the Friday rotation goal while connecting the indigo vest to the blue-gray trousers.
OOTD-CW - 9 October 2026
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I like that Dr. the mid ankle boots are great and while I can’t see the trousers so much because of the waistcoat, they appear to be a nice cloth and a as you know i am a big fan of forward pleats. Nicely done.
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@Dr. Jason Cole very cool
Warm-Weather Nightlife: Light or Dark Colors?
Gentlemen, I would appreciate some advice from those of you who have experience dressing well for evenings out in warm, tropical climates. As I continue working on building a more deliberate warm-weather wardrobe, I've been giving some thought to the differences between daytime and evening attire, particularly for dinners, lounges, restaurants, and nightlife. I spend a considerable amount of time in South America, where daytime temperatures are often in the mid-to-high 80s, evenings are generally cooler, and sudden, sometimes heavy rain is always a possibility. Coastal destinations can be considerably hotter and more humid, even after sunset. I've become increasingly interested in linen, lightweight cotton, and quality natural-fiber blends. White, cream, beige, and tan linen outfits can look fantastic, particularly during the day. But I'm wondering whether those lighter colors are equally practical for an evening out, especially when dealing with humidity, perspiration, wet surfaces, and unexpected rain. For those who regularly dress for warm-weather nightlife, do you find darker colors more practical or better suited to evening settings? I'm thinking of colors such as navy, charcoal, olive, chocolate brown, and black, while still maintaining the breathability of linen or other lightweight fabrics. I'm particularly interested in whether darker colors do a better job of concealing perspiration, rain spots, and the inevitable hazards of an evening out, or whether the difference is largely aesthetic. I would also welcome suggestions for specific combinations of shirts, trousers, and footwear that strike a good balance between looking sharp and staying comfortable. My goal isn't to dress formally for every occasion, but rather to develop a mature, relaxed, well-put-together style that works just as well for a nice dinner as it does for an evening enjoying the local nightlife. I would be interested to hear what has worked for you, especially from those with firsthand experience in tropical or consistently warm climates.
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Linen is to warm climates what wool is to cool. Tough resilient classic and comfortable. I would worry less about specific colors to choose for night and day and more about how the colors can creat “capsule wardrobes ie mor bang for my bucks. Understand that firstly (accompanied by Fit function and fabric (specifically how to care for linen, and the rest will take care of itself.
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@Antonio Cent I like this a lot.
TGIF
TGIF everyone. A few contractor and distributor meetings today. Then get to enjoy the weekend. We do have a very confusing yet approved business casual dress code at my company. We work in the field and with contractors and distributors daily. If you level up to Much you just look out of place. So we can pick and choose our style for the types of meetings. More relaxed business casual for in field meetings, dark colored jeans, polos, button downs, boots, derby’s, or clean white tennis shoes, jackets of your choosing as long as it’s professional. Corporate meetings we have a different dress code to follow: button down or dress shirts, slacks/Chinos, sport coats or blazer, and appropriate dress shoes. For more formal meetings such as with Architects, awards dinners, and other large corporate events we are expected to wear a business suit or equivalent. Tie or no tie is always optional and personal preference. So we do have some leeway and options for our daily attire. I lean more casual to business casual daily and stay one step above my clients and keep in line with our dress code standards. You will from time to time see pictures of me with a tie and a more formal look. My work wardrobe is quite unique and varies on formality. Friday Casual look: - black performance polo with company logo - Brown leather belt - Slim fit blue jeans - Brown Chelsea boots
TGIF
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Looking good my brother
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@brian-mcguire-7072
Start: 1975 men’s clothier; ’84 institutions/indiv. Financial Advisor; ‘90 fly fisherman; ‘04 Celtic Band singer; ‘05 mart arts; ‘10 Scouting & sailor

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