The goal is not to keep the nervous system constantly calm. The goal is for it to be able to shift into a state of arousal when needed, and then return to a balanced state. Today I came across this video, and I really wanted to share it here in At My Place too: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qveK--yCafo&t=7s One idea really stayed with me. Our nervous system does not need to be calm all the time. It also needs activation, challenge, movement and energy. But it also needs to know that after that, it can slow down, relax and feel safe again. Maybe the problem is not that we get activated. Maybe the problem starts when we do not know how to come back. In the video, they talk about eight signs that can be connected with a nervous system that stays alert for too long. And I have to say, I saw myself in a few of them very clearly. 🙂 For about some days now, I have been doing Breathwork every morning, and this is also part of my journey — learning to notice more of what is happening inside me, not only around me. Maybe the goal is not to stay calm all the time. Maybe it is about learning how to move between activation and relaxation, between action and rest — and knowing how to come back to myself. And what about you? Can you go into activation when you need it, and then allow yourself to calm down again?