You know when you are going through it...maybe you have a headache, chronic pain, burnout, anxiety, perimenopause, or any other symptom, and you just want it to be gone? For most of us, our automatic reaction is to get rid of it, soothe it, cure it, or try to "release" it. Fair enough. I don't like to suffer either, but in doing that, we are missing something incredibly important. When we shift from asking "What's wrong with me and how do I change it" (old paradigm) to an unshaming paradigm, we ask this instead: “What’s that like?” Instead of jumping to get rid of our symptoms and change our experience, we develop a curiosity FIRST: - What’s it like to feel exhausted? - What’s it like to feel anxious? - What’s it like to be in perimenopause? - What’s it like to have this headache? - What’s it like to feel stuck? - What's it like to have this constant pain that never goes away? This new direction of thought and exploration will take us to places we never knew existed. It unlocks information about ourselves and our experience that would have been missed had we immediately jumped to fix it/cure it/change it. There’s deep medicine in this question. xo, Amanda