"𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘴𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘥"
"𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘥𝘰 𝘪𝘵"
"𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥, 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥"
These are statements that give away your power and responsibility.
Maybe, they acted out
Maybe they said/did something that hurt deeply
Maybe they did cross a boundary
Maybe it was unfair
𝗔𝗻𝗱 Emotionally connected women own their part and choose to PAUSE before reacting or responding.
Your anger, hurt, disappointment, frustration, etc is all information.
And when you pause long enough to listen and pay attention to your body and emotions, something begins to shift.
𝗔𝗻 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗰𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘄𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗣𝗔𝗨𝗦𝗘 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗮𝘀𝗸:
🦋𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥𝘴 𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸?
🦋𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘰𝘦𝘴 𝘮𝘺 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘰𝘥𝘺 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥?
🦋𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘥𝘰 𝘐 𝘸𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯?
🌻𝗦𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘀𝘁𝘂𝗳𝗳 𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀
🌻𝗦𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘁𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗵𝗲'𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗵𝘂𝗿𝘁 𝗼𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗿𝘆
🌻𝗦𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗹𝗮𝗺𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀
𝘚𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘱𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘣𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘰𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧.
𝗪𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝘀𝗮𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴, "𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗠𝗮𝗱𝗲 𝗠𝗲"...?
Drop it below. No Judgement. Just curiosity.