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I need some opinions and toughts on breaking up.
As some of you knows from my previous posts i have been in a bad state of life as well as bad relationship that causes it. In short for those who might not know my situation- my girlfriend has taken away my social media, dreams, hobbies and controls every single little thing in my life I would love some opinions and toughts on these things: 1. Should i leave if i know it might cause her to do bad stuff to herself and i might ruin her school progress? 2. If you answered yes to 1- how should i do it in the nicest way possible and how do i get the strenght to do so? 3. If you answered no to 1- what could i do to make this better and get out of the bad cycles without leaving her? Thanks to everyone for your time and opinion/toughts. Have a nice day y'all🌞😊
Today's task!!!
Hello everyone! Today's task is more of socializing thing then anything mentaly helpful.- tell us what you like and what hobbies are you in or want to be in. Remember noone should and noone will hate on anyones hobbies because they are all valid!😊 Mine: I love sim drifting and cars in general.- that has made me a diecast car collector too. One day i would love to be a car youtuber as well as a drifter! Thanks everyone!😊
Getting too overwhelmed. What to do ?
Hi recently i have been trying to understand and improve upon communication skills , relationships , psychology type stuff etc and i am rly feeling too overwhelmed and exhausted . For ex the week before this week for amazing when i started to focus less on other people but rather on me . But this week i am exhausted every time it is rly hard and improving on all this had affected me as from two days from now i have my exams and i am just not able to study . Whenever i try i just cant focus and from the past few days i am again going back to old self where i overthink every single thing . I keep thinking abt in the past around 2yrs ago where apparently i was very famous and all . I also again go back to think abt a girl . I am again overthinking every convo(like i used to do some time ago) i have with my friends at school and again feeling i am playing all those mental tricks instead of actually be what i am and focus less on other opinion . Also ik what the life is online is just a part but seeing things like u should make friends now improve ur relation with them they are the one who will stay with you for ur life and help . Seeing various shorts with people with different thing trying and posting all sorts of thing is putting a toll on my life . Recently i was not posting bcuz i felt i was fine but in the past few days i am just not able to cope up . My exams are coming and i am just not able to study and to tell i am like a rly good in studies but this time i didnt complete my syllabus the problem is i am not even trying to do in such a crisis also . Earlier whenever this happened i used to do in the last days but i am just not willing to study and keep thinking abt friendships , relationships and all the various social stuff wayyyy too much .. I see all the video being uploaded on yt and here also various things but idk why rn i am not priortizing my studies (may be bcuz these exams dont impact my results) but i have real big exams coming up in the next 2 months .
Overthinking every single conversations!??
i just want to ask a simple question that as i mentioned in the previous post i have like lot of exams coming up in the next 3 months so i am going to meet less people now as more and more people are focusing on study . So idk like earlier rn i should feel a need to met more and more people and improve on these things or how to go abt it like small realistic goals but like what and how ?? Also like recently as i am meeting less people I am again going back to the old habit OF OVERTHINKING every singlee conversation like rly every thing . ik i is bad but as i talk i a thinking am i saying the correct stuff or being the person i wanna be or like improving or not type stuff . SO like i am not able to decide how to go abt this as i dont think not talking to people 3 months is good also the prob is just i am again going back to overthinking every single convo which i dont rly wanna go . The thing i just want is like if i am not improving i should be "worse" this is my main concern and worry as i want when these exams get over and i am in the new class i wann to be THE NEW ME and be good where ever i am lacking like overthinking , physical fitness , trying to get real good friendship with emotional connection (idk what to say abt this )...
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Weekends task for everyone-
Do a things you have been telling yourself that you want to start doing. Either its filming a youtube video( i get it its hard but try it and mby don't post it if you are not ready but film it) Or if its going to gym go and do it for just one hour this weekend thats small but thats something guys. Lets work on our lifes together and lets share what problems we might have or share our wins. We are all here for eachother!!! One more thing- text/call someone you haven't talked to in a long time!!! Have a good weekend everyone. Im excited to see some good coments of people doing what they have been wanting over the weekend!😊
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