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Feeling behind
Hey guys, I hope you are all well.
A couple of hours ago I watched Tom's latest video and wrote a comment, which I would like to also leave here, as it is more likely that it reach and potentioally help someone.
First off I want to say great video man. I am currently 19 and I can strongly relate to most things if not all. I have got so many things to be grateful for - I have a job, I make good money, I go to university, I have good friends, I have a loving family, yet I still feel behind, I still feel like I'm not doing good enough, I still forget to appreciate what I already have.
And I too have been trying to learn how to take a step back, to not worry. Literally my older sister who is 24 feels behind in life, just because she chose to study first before getting a job and doesn't yet make money.
My point is - even when you reach that thing you strive for, you will still start longing for something else you don't yet have. Some people say I'm doing extremely well for my age and it probably is somewhat true, but I can't fully see it.
My biggest struggle is probably #14(Be with people who choose you(love interest)) at the moment it has been for a while, but I have learned a lot trough trial and error. I wil be honest, the other day I had a mental breakdown, because of this, and early in the morning I got news that a relative of mine has passed away, which just all hit like a train.
Still I'm trying my best, and everyone should, despite wherever they are at. Yes you will fail daily, yes you will have tough moments, but it is part of the journey.
Take care y'all and apologies if I sounded harsh, arrogant or something like it
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