Doable Sleep Solutions that Actually Work
This week in UNSTUCK - the 6-week group coaching program, we're doing a deep dive into sleep. Let’s talk about the most common midlife sleep pattern I see: ✅ You fall asleep fine… ✅ You wake up between 2–4am… ✅ Your brain immediately opens 27 tabs and starts budgeting your entire life. If this is you, I want you to hear this clearly: This, although incredibly annoying, is a normal response to your situation. Your body is doing what it was designed to do: protect you. And in perimenopause, “protection” can look like: light sleep, frequent wake-ups, night sweats, anxiety spikes, restless legs, or that wired-but-tired feeling. Why it’s happening (in the most simplest of terms) In midlife, your system gets more sensitive to “threat signals,” like: - Blood sugar dips overnight → your body releases stress hormones to rescue you (hello, 3am wake-up) - Cortisol rhythm gets dysregulated → you’re tired at night but oddly alert at 2am - Estrogen + progesterone shift → temperature regulation + calming neurotransmitters get disrupted - Inflammation + alcohol + late-night snacks → amplify all of the above Translation: your sleep is your body’s safety signal.When your body feels safe, it sleeps. When it doesn’t, it stays on patrol. And this might be controversial: The goal isn’t “perfect sleep.” It’s more stable nights and a nervous system that stops treating bedtime like a fire drill. Here’s what I want you to try this week (realistic, not precious): 🌙 TRY THIS: The Peri Posse “Sleep Stack” (choose 2–3) 1) If you’re waking at 2–4am, make sure your evening meal is sufficient, contains protein AND complex carbs (rice, sweet potato, squash). In addition, try to eat this meal at least 90 minutes before you actually go to bed. If you wake at the same time nightly, that’s often blood sugar. Why it works: it helps prevent that overnight dip that triggers cortisol. 2) Stop doing cortisol’s favourite hobbies after dinner These are the “innocent” things that quietly mess with sleep: