9d • General discussion
You Love Change Until It Requires Motion
The Hips Gate™ shows up when movement becomes real.
I saw this clearly in a past friend.
She was always “about to move.”
About to leave.
About to change jobs.
About to start fresh.
And for years, nothing actually changed.
Every time an opportunity required real movement—packing, relocating, choosing something irreversible—her body would slow everything down.
Suddenly she was tired.
Suddenly the timing was off.
Suddenly she needed to “think about it more.”
From the outside it looked like procrastination.
It wasn’t.
Her hips would lock the moment change stopped being an idea and became a physical reality.
Staying uncomfortable felt safer than moving forward.
That’s the Hips Gate tightening.
When this gate is unregulated, life stays in preparation mode.
Plans circulate.
Momentum stalls.
Familiar discomfort becomes home.
It’s not laziness.
It’s not lack of desire.
It’s the nervous system saying, “We don’t know if it’s safe to move yet.”
Some of you aren’t stuck because you don’t want change.
You’re stuck because your body learned that movement meant loss.
Notice where your body slows when forward motion becomes unavoidable.
That’s information.
Not something to force.
Something to recognize.
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You Love Change Until It Requires Motion
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