I actually love the New Year. Not for the “new year, new me” energy. Not for the resolution lists. Not for the annual pressure to reinvent myself. I love it for the rituals. Rituals don’t ask me to become someone else. They help me maintain my standards of living. They reinforce the feminine authority that already exists within me. They remind my body what it means to move through life grounded, devoted, and self-led. This time of year isn’t about fixing myself. It’s about reaffirming who I am and how I live. Returning to the practices that keep me fired up, clear, and deeply in love with my own life. The New Year, for me, is a renewal of devotion — to my values, my pace, my boundaries, and my joy. So I’m curious… What rituals are you participating in this New Year? Not resolutions. Not goals. Rituals. 👇🏽

Affirmations alone won’t give you a new life. That’s the lie. You were told: “Just say it over and over and things will change.” Or worse—given so many “rules” to follow that you get lost performing spirituality instead of becoming powerful. Here’s the truth 👇🏽 Change happens through a formula: Belief + Thought (felt in the body) = Action → New Life Most women are blocked in one part of this formula. Some are blocked in all three. • You might say you want abundance, but hold beliefs that contradict receiving. • You might think differently, but never feel safe enough to act. • You might know exactly what to do, but stay frozen because your nervous system isn’t on board. Momentum comes when you identify where you’re leaking power. And this is where support matters. Not more information. Not more affirmations. Support. Ritual. Mentorship. Sister circles. Because free will is sacred—and nothing moves against it. If you want abundance, you can’t keep entertaining beliefs that reject it. If you want love, you cannot keep holding onto people who don’t offer it. No affirmation will override that. Going into 2026, the work is simple—but not easy: Figure out where you’re stuck in the formula. Then choose support that helps you move forward instead of staying inspired and unchanged. Power isn’t about saying the right words. It’s about aligning belief, feeling, and action. That’s how lives actually change.

I had to learn how to sit down. I watched the women in my family get up with the sun and stay busy all day. Movement was praised. Rest felt irresponsible. What no one talked about was what that constant motion took from them. Their creativity. Their gifts. Their ability to listen. I grew up thinking I wasn’t creative because I couldn’t sing, dance, or paint. I didn’t understand then that creativity isn’t something you perform—it’s something you allow. Through feminine ritual, I learned how to rest. And in resting, I became creative. Not in the way I was taught creativity should look, but in the way life actually moves. Every decision. Every idea. Every moment of clarity. All of it comes through God—Source—Universe, whatever language you use. Rest taught me that creation doesn’t come from filling time. It comes from making space. So rest. Your creativity is waiting.

Perfection is why you’re stuck. Trying to get it right is why you’ve never been rerouted. Life does not reroute people who refuse to move. It reroutes people who risk being wrong. Risk is the champagne of life. It introduces you to your next level. This is why some people never experience real love. They want it perfect — or not at all. They won’t risk their heart. They won’t risk their time. What they don’t realize is that risk is the insight required before the real thing arrives. I learned this quickly while coaching. Women weren’t afraid of love — they were afraid of imperfection. So instead of entering something imperfect and evolving, they opted out entirely. Perfectionism isn’t discipline. It’s avoidance dressed as logic. You can’t examine your way into a lived life. You can’t think your way into intimacy. And you can’t perfect your way into transformation. Perfectionism is the death of living. Transformation requires commitment — and commitment requires movement. If you’re waiting to feel ready, flawless, or certain… you’re choosing safety over life. And life doesn’t reward that.