Hey ! I hope you guys are doing good Personally I'm doing okay So , a little context I made a best friend on Instagram , this guy is absolutely a gem of a friend !! We got close in a sec and we started planning stuff together , that we'll live together once I move out etc , we built trust actually and comfort . Things were cool , until he started talking to this girl ( mind you he lives in another continent than I do ) so he talks to me about her etc and lemme clarify something , I am not attracted to him by any means , we are best friends and I love to see him at his best , but my nervous system snapped because I thought he was gonna replace me or abandon me , something like that , my traumas came to the surface and my anxiety peaked . He told me that hey , if anything comes in the way , I will communicate I won't randomly vanish but my old version of me keeps saying that he will ( which I know might be a trauma response ) but yeah . And we still talk everyday , until today I told him I need to regulate my nervous system because I don't feel very good , and he was so understanding of the situation. I will take today to have an honest conversation with myself and do a little meditation because my anxiety became physical these 4 days ago . What should I do to to take the attachment away , and keep the friendship healthy and comfortable for both of us ? And if anyone has a way to cope with attachment anxiety please let me know . Thank you all 🫶🏻

Hey y'all I am currently 14 and have been going against all these addictions for years and I finally believe that I am ready to quit move on and live life to the fullest. I am sure a lot y'all have been in the position I am in right now do any of you have advice you me to help never think about the bad habits or bad things again and only move forward as well as doing well in skl ( I am doing my GCSEs next year which is like exams people in the UK take) Any advice would be appreciated 🤝

How are you guys doing ? It's been a minute What are your goals for January and how are you working towards achieving them ? Also , I've got a at home job recently so I'm so happy and I wanted to share it with y'all :) Planning on getting an electric guitar by June if everything goes well til then . And I'm studying for the finals of the 1st semester.

Having survived the worst year of my entire life, I’ve had a lot of time to think about the kind of person I’m becoming and the specific areas I need to work on to get there. Taking that into account, how does one maneuver through loneliness, especially during a time that’s supposed to be cheerful and euphoric, i.e., the holidays and Christmas? Anybody is welcome to weigh in. I would love to know your thoughts.

So me and this girl were friends for like maybe 5 months , and I was okay with her behavior and everything nothing too aggressive even though one time she judged my beliefs but I've let that slide . Then until last week , I was sitting with her in the school yard I'd say , and a classmate of ours was with us we were talking , and the girl completely changed a behavior in front of him which I've noticed before but I never knew it was the pick me behavior . I thought she was like that . Anyways , she was wearing a jacket , she took it off then she wore it again and she stood up then she sit right again . She literally disturbed me but I didn't say anything cuz it didn't trigger me that much , then in a moment she made really uncomfortable when I said hold on I wanna find an empty classroom so I can record some covers for Instagram , I went to search and she turned around telling him oh look she has the walk of Michael Jackson , she's literally jealous of my model-like walk I suppose . Then I returned and I said , there's no empty classrooms , she said oh here's the restroom go and record there .... That was nasty , but yeah . Then I said no I won't and the guy said you want spirits to possess her or what ? I said I don't believe in spirits she said oh I can smell a Jewish person here .... How can you say that ?? And she followed by : oh don't tell me that I'm dealing with atheists right now , wait do you believe in God ? I said yes for the sake of ending her conversation because she's way too religious and that's not my thing . She labeled me atheist just because I said I don't believe in spirits not God lol. Afterwards , she started to give me weird stares , then she was speaking in English and she messed up a sentence so I hurried up to correct her which I normally do and she doesn't take it to heart , she literally said oh stfu stared at me and continued what she was saying to that guy . I literally didn't talk much to her that afternoon and then I messaged her on telegram saying girl you violated a boundary of mine saying that she said I was joking can't you get it !!? I can't believe that you thought of me like that .