There were 30 of us, enduring in the sweat lodge, round 1 just completed. It was a moment where anyone who wanted to share was given the space to do so. Words of appreciation were spoken, requests for extra strength to make it through the next three rounds, tears were shed for lost brothers. The womb of the earth briefly allowed men’s hearts to open, and what followed was beauty. The photographer let us know he would leave the tent after round 3, so he could capture the moment when we would all, hopefully reborn, emerge from the lodge. “Don’t worry, I’ll make sure I only take photos from the waist up.” That touched me, and I immediately felt the tears rising. “I would like to ask that when I leave the lodge, you capture me the way I came into this world. I have been ashamed of my body for so long, of my penis, my desires, and my pleasure. I have put myself down for so long, struggled with erectile dysfunction and feelings of not being allowed to stand in this world as a virile man. And I no longer allow that! This is who I am, and I’m not hiding it anymore.” The plea came out of my mouth woven with fiery passion, while simultaneously holding back and releasing tears. When I think back on it, I immediately feel that complex cocktail of emotions rising in me again. It’s what drives me to do the work I do. Away with shame. Let us be proud of being men. Of our erections. Of our love for women. Let us embrace the softness and warmth of our hearts just as fully as the wildest urges of our pelvis. It’s what constantly occupies my mind: how can I contribute to the systematic dismantling of sexual shame and inhibition? That’s why, starting this Wednesday, I’m beginning a series of unique online workshops where men can speak openly with each other about intimacy, sexuality, polarity, and erotic leadership in relationships. The first session will focus on our fantasy world, and how fantasies are signals of where our soul longs to feel more alive. I’m convinced this will be a deeply valuable exploration for many of us.

Welcome to Fire Unleashed brother, If you’re new to the community, your first step is the “Start Here” folder in the Classroom. It will: - explain what this space is about - show you how everything is structured - clarify what’s free and what requires commitment - guide you toward the next step that fits you 👉 Go to Classroom → Start Here → 01 — Welcome to Fire Unleashed. Take your time. This space rewards intention. P.S. Join our weekly Cosy Coffee Hour on Thursdays. A great way to connect with me and the community. (Comments are disabled to keep this post clear.)

Welcome to Fire Unleashed. This is a space for men who are serious about growth in intimacy, masculinity, and relational depth. Before you jump into conversations, make sure you’ve gone through the Start Here section in the Classroom. It will give you the context needed to engage well here. When you’re ready, introduce yourself below. You can keep it simple. Share what feels true. If you need some help to get started: - What brought you here now? - What are you currently navigating in intimacy or relationships? - What do you want to develop more of as a man? - What kind of brother do you aim to be in this space? There’s no need to impress anyone here. Presence matters more than performance. Take your time. Read. Listen. Then speak. Welcome to the Brotherhood.

Here I will share what I'm working on currently and have planned for the near future. I'll update this every two weeks. This might be extra content in the existing modules, new modules, new courses, and whatever else that seems relevant to share. Obviously, it's just me, so it'll happen when I can make it happen. But I do want to provide you with a glimpse of what's going on behind the scenes. If you want to request features, programs, or topics I can potentially provide, you can do so in the comments. 09/02/2026 ⌛Currently Working On: - I need to get back into content creation. So the next period is going to be all about that. 🛸Future Planned Work: - Designing my website and other marketing tools to be more in line with my current offering. - Organize and facilitate a retreat around Dominance and Intimacy. 🕵️Long Term Ideas I'm considering: - Weekly or Biweekly Challenges. Not necessarily tied to specific topics, as is now the case. Mostly stuff to get you out there taking action. 🏁Recently Finished: - 26/01/26 - Finished version 1.0 of the Erotic Play Vault. I’m super proud of it, and I’m certain it will help create a lot of fun nights for countless couples out there. - 12/01/26 - Finished the second run of Reclaim the Fire with great feedback and and eagerness to continue - 15/12/25 - Created the Erotic Leadership Vault. A collection of al kinds of intimate play experiences. The resource for men wanting to expand their sex lives - 06/11/25 - Finished the Reclaim the Fire Continuation Arc - 4 additional modules for the Reclaim the Fire flagship program - 06/10/25 - Created and Finished the F.I.R.E. Diagnostic Test and accompanying resources. A tool to figure out what areas of your intimate life need some care and attention. Really proud of this one, check it out!!! - 25/08/25 - Finished the beta version of Reclaim the Fire. It from now on will be my flagship program that with each additional launch will improve and grow in scale. I’m so proud of it already.